"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's depressed because I made her stay up.

montybrown

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Last night I went out with my friends to DnB and the girl that we're in the "beginning stages" of hooking up. I told her I'd be home soon and I'll call her. 1 Hour later I was still out and she tells me she's depressed and waited up for me for nothing and she never wants to talk to me again. I tried calling her telling her my friend got into trouble and I will explain to her everything. But after like 2-3 calls, she didn't answer. Left her a voicemail and she still is ignoring me. Not sure what else really I could do. Guess I'm gonna have to move on.

It's funny because I don't really want to be in a relationship with her, I just love fvcking her. She's got so many Cons that I'm trying to focus on so that I can just stop thinking about relationships with her.
Cons
- Raped
- Had Chlamydia
- fvcked up toe
- One Night Stands
- fvcked Up Front Teeth!! Can't even smile
- Doesn't shave legs
- Terrible History. Knife to throat? She's a fvcking killer. Good God!! Ugh! She said that she would murder someone if she had to.
- Fall in love with her first lover if he ever came back here. Cries about it

Pros
Great body, very good fvck
Cool to chill/cruise with.
Lot in common, good taste in music
That's about it..?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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weakepedea

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montybrown said:
Last night I went out with my friends to DnB and the girl that we're in the "beginning stages" of hooking up. I told her I'd be home soon and I'll call her. 1 Hour later I was still out and she tells me she's depressed and waited up for me for nothing and she never wants to talk to me again. I tried calling her telling her my friend got into trouble and I will explain to her everything. But after like 2-3 calls, she didn't answer. Left her a voicemail and she still is ignoring me. Not sure what else really I could do. Guess I'm gonna have to move on.

It's funny because I don't really want to be in a relationship with her, I just love fvcking her. She's got so many Cons that I'm trying to focus on so that I can just stop thinking about relationships with her.
Cons
- Raped
- Had Chlamydia
- fvcked up toe
- One Night Stands
- fvcked Up Front Teeth!! Can't even smile
- Doesn't shave legs
- Terrible History. Knife to throat? She's a fvcking killer. Good God!! Ugh! She said that she would murder someone if she had to.
- Fall in love with her first lover if he ever came back here. Cries about it

Pros
Great body, very good fvck
Cool to chill/cruise with.
Lot in common, good taste in music
That's about it..?

You shouldn't try to convince her to be interested. She obviously is trying to punish you and/or find an excuse to put you on hold or avoid. Does she know that you're the prize?
 

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Jesus, man, I know that these crazies are stimulating, and usually great in bed, but this list you've typed just screams "NEXT"!!!!!

Move on.
 

montybrown

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lol. I remember when I was rubbing her legs it was stubby and I asked when was the last time you shaved and she responds like 2 weeks ago. She shaves them but not always like a normal girl does. She always tells me that she's a mistake child and that no one will accept her for her ****ed up history. She's not high maintainence but when she told me about how she would kill someone... Jesus Christ, what the fck am I thinking even trying to contact her? My mind is wanting to move on but my **** is doing my thinking.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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