"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She's depressed because I made her stay up.

montybrown

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Last night I went out with my friends to DnB and the girl that we're in the "beginning stages" of hooking up. I told her I'd be home soon and I'll call her. 1 Hour later I was still out and she tells me she's depressed and waited up for me for nothing and she never wants to talk to me again. I tried calling her telling her my friend got into trouble and I will explain to her everything. But after like 2-3 calls, she didn't answer. Left her a voicemail and she still is ignoring me. Not sure what else really I could do. Guess I'm gonna have to move on.

It's funny because I don't really want to be in a relationship with her, I just love fvcking her. She's got so many Cons that I'm trying to focus on so that I can just stop thinking about relationships with her.
Cons
- Raped
- Had Chlamydia
- fvcked up toe
- One Night Stands
- fvcked Up Front Teeth!! Can't even smile
- Doesn't shave legs
- Terrible History. Knife to throat? She's a fvcking killer. Good God!! Ugh! She said that she would murder someone if she had to.
- Fall in love with her first lover if he ever came back here. Cries about it

Pros
Great body, very good fvck
Cool to chill/cruise with.
Lot in common, good taste in music
That's about it..?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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weakepedea

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montybrown said:
Last night I went out with my friends to DnB and the girl that we're in the "beginning stages" of hooking up. I told her I'd be home soon and I'll call her. 1 Hour later I was still out and she tells me she's depressed and waited up for me for nothing and she never wants to talk to me again. I tried calling her telling her my friend got into trouble and I will explain to her everything. But after like 2-3 calls, she didn't answer. Left her a voicemail and she still is ignoring me. Not sure what else really I could do. Guess I'm gonna have to move on.

It's funny because I don't really want to be in a relationship with her, I just love fvcking her. She's got so many Cons that I'm trying to focus on so that I can just stop thinking about relationships with her.
Cons
- Raped
- Had Chlamydia
- fvcked up toe
- One Night Stands
- fvcked Up Front Teeth!! Can't even smile
- Doesn't shave legs
- Terrible History. Knife to throat? She's a fvcking killer. Good God!! Ugh! She said that she would murder someone if she had to.
- Fall in love with her first lover if he ever came back here. Cries about it

Pros
Great body, very good fvck
Cool to chill/cruise with.
Lot in common, good taste in music
That's about it..?

You shouldn't try to convince her to be interested. She obviously is trying to punish you and/or find an excuse to put you on hold or avoid. Does she know that you're the prize?
 

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Jesus, man, I know that these crazies are stimulating, and usually great in bed, but this list you've typed just screams "NEXT"!!!!!

Move on.
 

montybrown

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lol. I remember when I was rubbing her legs it was stubby and I asked when was the last time you shaved and she responds like 2 weeks ago. She shaves them but not always like a normal girl does. She always tells me that she's a mistake child and that no one will accept her for her ****ed up history. She's not high maintainence but when she told me about how she would kill someone... Jesus Christ, what the fck am I thinking even trying to contact her? My mind is wanting to move on but my **** is doing my thinking.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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