"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She's depressed because I made her stay up.

montybrown

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Last night I went out with my friends to DnB and the girl that we're in the "beginning stages" of hooking up. I told her I'd be home soon and I'll call her. 1 Hour later I was still out and she tells me she's depressed and waited up for me for nothing and she never wants to talk to me again. I tried calling her telling her my friend got into trouble and I will explain to her everything. But after like 2-3 calls, she didn't answer. Left her a voicemail and she still is ignoring me. Not sure what else really I could do. Guess I'm gonna have to move on.

It's funny because I don't really want to be in a relationship with her, I just love fvcking her. She's got so many Cons that I'm trying to focus on so that I can just stop thinking about relationships with her.
Cons
- Raped
- Had Chlamydia
- fvcked up toe
- One Night Stands
- fvcked Up Front Teeth!! Can't even smile
- Doesn't shave legs
- Terrible History. Knife to throat? She's a fvcking killer. Good God!! Ugh! She said that she would murder someone if she had to.
- Fall in love with her first lover if he ever came back here. Cries about it

Pros
Great body, very good fvck
Cool to chill/cruise with.
Lot in common, good taste in music
That's about it..?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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weakepedea

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montybrown said:
Last night I went out with my friends to DnB and the girl that we're in the "beginning stages" of hooking up. I told her I'd be home soon and I'll call her. 1 Hour later I was still out and she tells me she's depressed and waited up for me for nothing and she never wants to talk to me again. I tried calling her telling her my friend got into trouble and I will explain to her everything. But after like 2-3 calls, she didn't answer. Left her a voicemail and she still is ignoring me. Not sure what else really I could do. Guess I'm gonna have to move on.

It's funny because I don't really want to be in a relationship with her, I just love fvcking her. She's got so many Cons that I'm trying to focus on so that I can just stop thinking about relationships with her.
Cons
- Raped
- Had Chlamydia
- fvcked up toe
- One Night Stands
- fvcked Up Front Teeth!! Can't even smile
- Doesn't shave legs
- Terrible History. Knife to throat? She's a fvcking killer. Good God!! Ugh! She said that she would murder someone if she had to.
- Fall in love with her first lover if he ever came back here. Cries about it

Pros
Great body, very good fvck
Cool to chill/cruise with.
Lot in common, good taste in music
That's about it..?

You shouldn't try to convince her to be interested. She obviously is trying to punish you and/or find an excuse to put you on hold or avoid. Does she know that you're the prize?
 

aliasguy

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Jesus, man, I know that these crazies are stimulating, and usually great in bed, but this list you've typed just screams "NEXT"!!!!!

Move on.
 

montybrown

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lol. I remember when I was rubbing her legs it was stubby and I asked when was the last time you shaved and she responds like 2 weeks ago. She shaves them but not always like a normal girl does. She always tells me that she's a mistake child and that no one will accept her for her ****ed up history. She's not high maintainence but when she told me about how she would kill someone... Jesus Christ, what the fck am I thinking even trying to contact her? My mind is wanting to move on but my **** is doing my thinking.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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