"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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alright guys, gotta go to school soon. I'll keep this short.

The girl in my class is coming over today. My mom is still in Texas, it'll be just us two. I've been in this position before. I had a girl in my bed before and we just made out. That was my first kiss, and I was afraid to have sex. Now, I want to escalate. This girl is a virgin though.. So am I, I just didn't tell her. I can start off by kissing but we haven't made out yet so I'm trying to figure out how I can get her horny. She's put up a decent amount of resistance when we kiss and it frustrates me. She doesn't know we'll be home alone. She didn't ask.

Today, I'm just going to play it cool when watching Netflix. I'm gonna go for that make out, and try to finger her. Not sure if I should have sex with her, not even sure if she'd be down. I'm just gonna see. whatever happens, happens. I might have regrets if I don't **** her though, because I have an opportunity.

I'll figure out what to do later. Wish me luck!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well i got ahead of myself. this girl is prude. she likes me, but she'd rather be kissed on the cheek. her tongue kissing is awkward. i had a decent time with her at my house today but damn, she wasn't tryna fool around. all i did was kiss her titty and grab her ass. she wouldnt let me touch the kitty lol.

the strangest thing happens when im about to drive her home. were leaving my house and she says, "I'm actually wet as hell" She wet her panties. Why does she like me but she doesnt want to take things to the next level. this is somewhat frustrating. i need other plates. i think i need to practice with a ho because this girl isn't much fun to fool around with. ideas?
 

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amazingswayze said:
well i got ahead of myself. this girl is prude. she likes me, but she'd rather be kissed on the cheek. her tongue kissing is awkward. i had a decent time with her at my house today but damn, she wasn't tryna fool around. all i did was kiss her titty and grab her ass. she wouldnt let me touch the kitty lol.

the strangest thing happens when im about to drive her home. were leaving my house and she says, "I'm actually wet as hell" She wet her panties. Why does she like me but she doesnt want to take things to the next level. this is somewhat frustrating. i need other plates. i think i need to practice with a ho because this girl isn't much fun to fool around with. ideas?
Uhhh...she set it up on a platter for you...

Her: "I'm wet as hell"

You: "Oh yeah? Let me find out how wet you are...." as you reach your hands down to see...
 

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marmel75 said:
Uhhh...she set it up on a platter for you...

Her: "I'm wet as hell"

You: "Oh yeah? Let me find out how wet you are...." as you reach your hands down to see...

indeed , you may have missed a golden opportunity through your lack of experience / confidence

but dont worry your young and you will have millions more

learn your lessons and do better next time ;)
 

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marmel75 said:
Uhhh...she set it up on a platter for you...

Her: "I'm wet as hell"

You: "Oh yeah? Let me find out how wet you are...." as you reach your hands down to see...
this was as we were leaving so i just said screw it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i have a different girl from my class coming over in a few minutes. she came onto me in school today. she said she wanted to smoke some weed with me. i was like yeah im down, and later on as we were leaving school she told me to hit her up i was like alright lemme get your number wanna come over my place later? I still have the house to myself for one more day so we'll see what happens ;)
 

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Awkward.

amazingswayze said:
i have a different girl from my class coming over in a few minutes. she came onto me in school today. she said she wanted to smoke some weed with me. i was like yeah im down, and later on as we were leaving school she told me to hit her up i was like alright lemme get your number wanna come over my place later? I still have the house to myself for one more day so we'll see what happens ;)
holy ****. I feel weird as ****. i almost had sex with that girl. I sucked some titties, ate her out, and i just got head for the first time.

It was awkward though. I couldn't keep my boner. She asked me if I was a virgin when we started fooling around and I lied and said I had sex with my best friend once a long time ago. she was like ok. She kept asking me why I couldn't stay hard and it was hard for me to explain. she was so self-conscious. She thought it was because of her.

I feel weird because I never pulled out my **** in front of a girl before. This was my first time, and I'm not sure how to feel about this right now. I'm hoping that school isn't awkward tomorrow.

She left on a bad note. She said, "go jerk off" as she walked out the door.
Man, I was ****ing embarassed.

I texted her an hour or so after and I said, "Hey today was cool and I think you're a chill person. Don't get the wrong idea, I think I was just nervous."

She replies, "It was pretty cool swaze I think you are too and really why didn't you tell me I thought it was me?

I say, "I didn't know how to tell you until now"

No answer yet. Trying to remedy the situation for tomorrow.

I do not feel the same. I feel weird. I guess that's just what happens the first time.
 

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Despite what some guys might tell you I don't see a need to rush to have sex just so you aren't a "virgin" still. Guessing you are a decent looking guy since you managed to get two girls back two days in a row. The fist girl is obviously not experienced so she wants to take things slower. You decide if you want to do that or not.

2nd girl... Do you watch a lot if porn? You shouldn't have a problem keeping it hard at your age. Cut out the porn/jerking off for a bit. Is girl 2 hot?
 

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truthfully...

altec said:
Despite what some guys might tell you I don't see a need to rush to have sex just so you aren't a "virgin" still. Guessing you are a decent looking guy since you managed to get two girls back two days in a row. The fist girl is obviously not experienced so she wants to take things slower. You decide if you want to do that or not.

2nd girl... Do you watch a lot if porn? You shouldn't have a problem keeping it hard at your age. Cut out the porn/jerking off for a bit. Is girl 2 hot?
the 2nd girl is ok looking. she's honestly a 6. i wasn't very attracted to her. i'm just doing this for the sake of experience. she was literally asking for it and i had the house to myself so I went through with it.

There may be a few reasons I couldn't stay hard.
I wasn't very sexually attracted to her
I had perfomance anxiety
I was inexperienced

It is what it is. I finally got some ***** and got some head. This gives me all the confidence I need to do it again with any girl. im happy about this no matter what happened. :rockon:
 

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amazingswayze said:
the 2nd girl is ok looking. she's honestly a 6. i wasn't very attracted to her. i'm just doing this for the sake of experience. she was literally asking for it and i had the house to myself so I went through with it.

There may be a few reasons I couldn't stay hard.
I wasn't very sexually attracted to her
I had perfomance anxiety
I was inexperienced

It is what it is. I finally got some ***** and got some head. This gives me all the confidence I need to do it again with any girl. im happy about this no matter what happened. :rockon:
Praise to you for giving up your pride and lowering your standards for some quick p*ssy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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