"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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she's catching up w/ex over lunch

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I think this thread needed to be pulled up from the past. It’s disgusting. LMAO

What men here don’t realize is that every guy that has showed up here lamenting over a woman was hit with this either with her past lovers or new ones.

It just so happens that the woman in the original post was alerting him to her attempt to see if there was still a connection with this past guy because she wanted to be amused by his resulting internal conflicts.

Most men are amusement toys, like a new Barbie doll that she plays with for a little while but puts on a shelf like an elf.

No need to give it a term or word to explain it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah and most girls are with her toys, looking for ones that actually has growned up and she wanted her to be my toys.. :cool:
 

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Old post. My thoughts.

Immediate dumping, but it takes time to understand that and why. You need to be both the ex and the current boyfriend. I guarntee 100% that most internet trolls haven't.

Therefore people learn proper, and probably a bit quicker than those of us that did without such resources, but with nagging of 30 year old virgin trolls.

The very very best womanizers that I've literally ever known irl (naturals gasp!) or online have been through the same old sh1t. The stuff makes you or breaks you.

Lunch with an ex.. This just fukin baffles me..

I would be nexting at this point
 
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