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She's bossy and it's killing me.

ryananderson

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My girlfriend is the most bossy person I know and everytime she tells me what to do, my love for her slowly fades. I love her genuinely--- it isn’t something questionable. But her attitude is very suffocating. I sometimes don’t feel that she’s really loving me coz it doesn’t seem like it. One time, I told her I’m breaking up with her because I can’t handle her anymore. Yet, she said she will kill herself if I leave her. I don’t know what to do anymore.
 

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As soon as a girl threatens to kill herself over a break up she needs to go.

If she messages you this, screen shot it. Chances she won't kill herself but on the off chance that she does.. Tell her friends and her parents that she needs help and then break up with her, send them the screen shot. She's unstable and if she's using that as a form of control there's nothing but negative in it for you. Even if she wasn't threatening to kill herself there's enough of a reason here to break up with her.

Different story if she was your committed gf and she was suicidal, but as soon as a person willingly weaponizes there mental illness you must cut ties.

Time to go, not your issue to solve.
 
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My girlfriend is the most bossy person I know and everytime she tells me what to do, my love for her slowly fades. I love her genuinely--- it isn’t something questionable. But her attitude is very suffocating. I sometimes don’t feel that she’s really loving me coz it doesn’t seem like it. One time, I told her I’m breaking up with her because I can’t handle her anymore. Yet, she said she will kill herself if I leave her. I don’t know what to do anymore.
Spend alot less time with her and more time working on your Interests.
 

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Tell her parents she needs help and drop her quickly.
 

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You guys are advising a banned troll. It's a bot.
 
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