"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She's bossy and it's killing me.

ryananderson

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My girlfriend is the most bossy person I know and everytime she tells me what to do, my love for her slowly fades. I love her genuinely--- it isn’t something questionable. But her attitude is very suffocating. I sometimes don’t feel that she’s really loving me coz it doesn’t seem like it. One time, I told her I’m breaking up with her because I can’t handle her anymore. Yet, she said she will kill herself if I leave her. I don’t know what to do anymore.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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M Musashi

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As soon as a girl threatens to kill herself over a break up she needs to go.

If she messages you this, screen shot it. Chances she won't kill herself but on the off chance that she does.. Tell her friends and her parents that she needs help and then break up with her, send them the screen shot. She's unstable and if she's using that as a form of control there's nothing but negative in it for you. Even if she wasn't threatening to kill herself there's enough of a reason here to break up with her.

Different story if she was your committed gf and she was suicidal, but as soon as a person willingly weaponizes there mental illness you must cut ties.

Time to go, not your issue to solve.
 
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My girlfriend is the most bossy person I know and everytime she tells me what to do, my love for her slowly fades. I love her genuinely--- it isn’t something questionable. But her attitude is very suffocating. I sometimes don’t feel that she’s really loving me coz it doesn’t seem like it. One time, I told her I’m breaking up with her because I can’t handle her anymore. Yet, she said she will kill herself if I leave her. I don’t know what to do anymore.
Spend alot less time with her and more time working on your Interests.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Atom Smasher

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You guys are advising a banned troll. It's a bot.
 
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