“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She's bossy and it's killing me.

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My girlfriend is the most bossy person I know and everytime she tells me what to do, my love for her slowly fades. I love her genuinely--- it isn’t something questionable. But her attitude is very suffocating. I sometimes don’t feel that she’s really loving me coz it doesn’t seem like it. One time, I told her I’m breaking up with her because I can’t handle her anymore. Yet, she said she will kill herself if I leave her. I don’t know what to do anymore.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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As soon as a girl threatens to kill herself over a break up she needs to go.

If she messages you this, screen shot it. Chances she won't kill herself but on the off chance that she does.. Tell her friends and her parents that she needs help and then break up with her, send them the screen shot. She's unstable and if she's using that as a form of control there's nothing but negative in it for you. Even if she wasn't threatening to kill herself there's enough of a reason here to break up with her.

Different story if she was your committed gf and she was suicidal, but as soon as a person willingly weaponizes there mental illness you must cut ties.

Time to go, not your issue to solve.
 
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My girlfriend is the most bossy person I know and everytime she tells me what to do, my love for her slowly fades. I love her genuinely--- it isn’t something questionable. But her attitude is very suffocating. I sometimes don’t feel that she’s really loving me coz it doesn’t seem like it. One time, I told her I’m breaking up with her because I can’t handle her anymore. Yet, she said she will kill herself if I leave her. I don’t know what to do anymore.
Spend alot less time with her and more time working on your Interests.
 

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You guys are advising a banned troll. It's a bot.
 
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