"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She's Bitter And Fvcking Up My Rep!!!!

DonGiovanni

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this FG3 ate the sosuave/don juan mindset up without me doing remotely anything. She ends up spreading rumors about her infatuation of my friend and I. we confront her and now she spreads more rumors and its REALLY messing up my Reputation!:cuss: You got me in to this sosuave! get me out! help me!


Edit: she wont leave me alone whether it be good or bad. and her rumor consisted of us together whih isnt a good look for me...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NorwegianDJ

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Just don't care about it. If you react to it, it will naturally not look good, even though people know that it's not true. And post more info please instead of just ranting. And again, why does she have any influence at all?
 

NorwegianDJ

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DJ_Hero said:
Yeah, don't care about it. And forget about this "rep" that you have, why do you care what people think of you? That's what girls worry about, you don't need to get caught up in this petty shit.
Nah dude, I'm a huge believer in rep in HS. Of course it's not important in my situation, but anyone that has a big HS should maintain a good rep. It's social proof. It makes stuff much more easy in HS. Gives you instant high value in that environment. Like situational confidence.
 

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DJ_Hero said:
Okay, I don't really agree or disagree with you. If he was talking to everyone already, he wouldn't have to worry about some bitch influencing other people's opinions of him. He has to let other people make up their own minds on him. A girl shouldn't have the power to fck up his reputation. He shouldn't worry about her as long as he's doing everything else right.
AGREED :D
 

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DJ_Hero said:
Yeah, don't care about it. And forget about this "rep" that you have, why do you care what people think of you? That's what girls worry about, you don't need to get caught up in this petty shit.
Very foolish. Reputation and respect are vital in life.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't care and LAUGH if anyone says anything about it to you. Or look disgusted, your choice. Don't care and other people won't, people want to follow the leader (you).
My friends normally do the same thing with rumours about me.
 

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Maybe go to an administrater or principle? At my high school they took this behavior very seriously and always confronted the person spreading the rumors.
 
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