"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She's Bitter And Fvcking Up My Rep!!!!

DonGiovanni

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this FG3 ate the sosuave/don juan mindset up without me doing remotely anything. She ends up spreading rumors about her infatuation of my friend and I. we confront her and now she spreads more rumors and its REALLY messing up my Reputation!:cuss: You got me in to this sosuave! get me out! help me!


Edit: she wont leave me alone whether it be good or bad. and her rumor consisted of us together whih isnt a good look for me...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NorwegianDJ

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Just don't care about it. If you react to it, it will naturally not look good, even though people know that it's not true. And post more info please instead of just ranting. And again, why does she have any influence at all?
 

NorwegianDJ

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DJ_Hero said:
Yeah, don't care about it. And forget about this "rep" that you have, why do you care what people think of you? That's what girls worry about, you don't need to get caught up in this petty shit.
Nah dude, I'm a huge believer in rep in HS. Of course it's not important in my situation, but anyone that has a big HS should maintain a good rep. It's social proof. It makes stuff much more easy in HS. Gives you instant high value in that environment. Like situational confidence.
 

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DJ_Hero said:
Okay, I don't really agree or disagree with you. If he was talking to everyone already, he wouldn't have to worry about some bitch influencing other people's opinions of him. He has to let other people make up their own minds on him. A girl shouldn't have the power to fck up his reputation. He shouldn't worry about her as long as he's doing everything else right.
AGREED :D
 

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DJ_Hero said:
Yeah, don't care about it. And forget about this "rep" that you have, why do you care what people think of you? That's what girls worry about, you don't need to get caught up in this petty shit.
Very foolish. Reputation and respect are vital in life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jack Wealthy

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Don't care and LAUGH if anyone says anything about it to you. Or look disgusted, your choice. Don't care and other people won't, people want to follow the leader (you).
My friends normally do the same thing with rumours about me.
 

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Maybe go to an administrater or principle? At my high school they took this behavior very seriously and always confronted the person spreading the rumors.
 
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