Shes being sexual without getting sexual, what should i do ?

[mrmuscles2]

I've known this girl for about two years ( a little while after getting into college ) we met through a friend and basically i never really wanted to date her or anything but she's nice (just not attracted to her ... body is alright though) .... she have expressed an interest in dating me to my friends, she complimented my looks a lot and told me how she finds me very good looking and attractive ... at first ( a year ago) she would send me random snaps and texts and i just didnt feel like it and never replied much or even at all sometimes , for a month or two i almost never replied to her texts but then a friend suggested i do it and see where it goes with this chick ...

so we started texting and snapping and her pics started getting more and more sexy, full body shots in front of mirror, wearing bikini, topless (Showing cleavage and head but not b00bs) ....etc , you get what iam trying to say, sexy pics but covering all the right parts , at first i didnt care much but then i started flirting with her and being a bit more sexual and complimenting her body and suggested she invites me over twice (weeks apart ... btw i dont have a place and she does) , she was never offended by me saying anything or being sexual but she still kinda avoided the inviting me over part ...

she once asked me about my views on friendships and relationships and i said that i have no interest in female friends and iam not looking for anything serious atm and just looking for having some fun with the ladies, she acted like she didnt expect that but still kept on texting me often and sending me s3xy pics .... for a few months the texts and pics stopped and i thought she finally understood that iam not interested in dating her and just want s3x , but this week she's back at it again, this time i wasted no time and immediately told her she looks s3xy and seeing her hot body makes me forget everything else, and she should invite me over ...she took it pretty well and even said " yeah sure " .

now iam 90% sure she wont actually invite me over ... my friend who introduced us to each other told me shes a " good girl" and doesnt do casual s3x or FWB and honestly iam unlucky when it comes to s3x so not expecting much .... but shes nice, shes friends with my friends and we cross paths often and i dont wanna hurt her by telling her to not message me, but iam still not sure what she truly wants, its obvious iam not really interested in dating and just want s3x, and shes acting s3xy yet doesnt seem to be into taking actions and doing instead of talking .... so what you guys think ?

 

[CBear]

so we started texting and snapping and her pics started getting more and more sexy, full body shots in front of mirror, wearing bikini, topless (Showing cleavage and head but not b00bs) ....etc , you get what iam trying to say, sexy pics but covering all the right parts , at first i didnt care much but then i started flirting with her and being a bit more sexual and complimenting her body and suggested she invites me over twice (weeks apart ... btw i dont have a place and she does) , she was never offended by me saying anything or being sexual but she still kinda avoided the inviting me over part ...
.... so what you guys think ?

What I think is that she does the same thing with 20 other dudes. You're better off looking elsewhere.

 

[mrmuscles2]

What I think is that she does the same thing with 20 other dudes. You're better off looking elsewhere.

i am aware of that, but thing is she keeps texting me and doesnt seem to even care of i respond or not, i thought that telling her i want s3x only will make her understand but i was wrong

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I think she wants YOU to ask HER out. You said you don’t have a place. Then go find one. Not as in move out on your own, but as in when you do go out with her, make sure that you end up somewhere where you two can bang.

 

[RangerMIke]

Why are you waiting for her to invite you over? Your job as a man is to make something happen. Chicks do this... they stick their foot in the water to test the warmth... it seems like you are giving her signs the water is cold. Just make a date.... get her alone... escalate... then see what happens.

 

[Glassguy]

I agree with @RangerMIke

she still kinda avoided the inviting me over part ...

and she should invite me over ...she took it pretty well and even said " yeah sure " .

The problem here isnt her.....ITS YOU. She has done everything she is supposed to do and more.

She says "yeah sure" and you do not nail her down on a time.......you are not leading, you are being a pvssified beta here and waiting for her to make every move. That is the fastest way to watch women run from you.

You are to set a specific date, time and place. Its either a yes, counter offer or no. It seems so simple yet some of you dudes try to turn this into rocket science.

 

[marmel75]

Dudes these days are so lazy they cant even set up a date...lmao...unbelievable.

Then they wonder what is going wrong.

 

[marmel75]

Next question we start seeing:

"Guys she is grabbing my c0ck without me telling her to!! Hurry...help!! What should I do???"

 

[greatsnake]

She either is an attention *****, wants you as an orbiter, she wants validation or really wants you to bang her.

If she wants you to bang her, make the first move-- she has given you plenty of signs. Ask her out for drinks and do it afterwards.

 

[CMNILS87]

You get sexual, without doing or saying sexual stuff.

Women talk, men do

 

[mrmuscles2]

all of you seem to live in a fantasy world where rape and consent is not a thing .... do ? bang her ? are you being serious right now casue i cant f*Cking tell , the f*Cking chick has been doing this for a year i tried to set a date twice and she always says yes and chickens out when she realizes its getting real, i told her at least twice after she sent me hot pics and that shes home alone that iam paying her a visit in the next hour or so and she always yeah sure you should come and an hour later she's like " yeah sorry iam at my friends house cant do it today " ... shie is pretending to be a h0e , dam guys you throw assumptions like you actually live with the person asking the question, and non of that is actually true, the question was pretty clear cant get more detailed than that , all i have left to do is actually actually post her name and picture .

iam not a pvssified beta, iam not lacking in confidence and i know when to escalate sexually, however , you CANNOT ESCALATE SEXUALLY IF SHE NEVER ACTUALLY GETS WITHIN TOUCHING DISTANCE !!! you will get some dude seriously f*Cked up with your talks here, you talk like we live in the wild west, catch her, undress her and bang her , maybe it works on ghetto moms with 3 kids from 5 daddies, but on normal everyday chicks that sh*T does not work, iam not casanova but damn logic is not bad to have sometime .

 

[RichardTheFrog]

all of you seem to live in a fantasy world where rape and consent is not a thing .... do ? bang her ? are you being serious right now casue i cant f*Cking tell , the f*Cking chick has been doing this for a year i tried to set a date twice and she always says yes and chickens out when she realizes its getting real, i told her at least twice after she sent me hot pics and that shes home alone that iam paying her a visit in the next hour or so and she always yeah sure you should come and an hour later she's like " yeah sorry iam at my friends house cant do it today " ... shie is pretending to be a h0e , dam guys you throw assumptions like you actually live with the person asking the question, and non of that is actually true, the question was pretty clear cant get more detailed than that , all i have left to do is actually actually post her name and picture .

iam not a pvssified beta, iam not lacking in confidence and i know when to escalate sexually, however , you CANNOT ESCALATE SEXUALLY IF SHE NEVER ACTUALLY GETS WITHIN TOUCHING DISTANCE !!! you will get some dude seriously f*Cked up with your talks here, you talk like we live in the wild west, catch her, undress her and bang her , maybe it works on ghetto moms with 3 kids from 5 daddies, but on normal everyday chicks that sh*T does not work, iam not casanova but damn logic is not bad to have sometime .

You OBVIOUSLY need to do more bicep curls.

 

[mrmuscles2]

You OBVIOUSLY need to do more bicep curls.

I know i do i had 16.5" biceps now they are barely 14.5