"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She's bad on the phone

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With me anyway. It seems like whenever we talk, she's not excited at all. it's like she has no emotion. She doesn't have much to say at all either. i mean she stays busy (i mean you go to school, and you play for the bball team, ain't nothin happen all day). I have to rely on BS convo to get her to talk (which equals BS stupid questions, which are a nono). She even told me tonight that she was tired of the stupid questions.


But for some reason, she still feels like she needs to call me everyday. We went out for 8months before, broke up, no we're talkin again (and it seems like she wants to get back with me). But i can't take these weak ass phone convos, and these long ass drives in the car. She almost made me think I was a bad phone person. But I have great convo with every other girl I talk to on the phone (mostly because I'm good at starting a convo that involves them to do alot of talking). But i cant get her to talk that much. What can I do about this? She even texts me to call her, and when I call, we still sit there.

And what REALLY bugs me is the fact that whenever she gets a call when we are out somewhere, she sounds lively. Maybe it's just me, but she sounds more lively. i dunno if i'm imagining that but it really seems like it.

She is a great catch, I know there is a way to fix this. This would be the relationship's only weakness because we are all good whenever we are somewhere where there can be physical contact (Like walkin in the mall). But whenever it is strictly convo, :(

help please... there must be a way to really open her up
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Are you matching your tone of voice//mood with hers?
 

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I do that for a lil bit but it seems like that gets us nowhere so I try to add a lil excitement
 

Jack McCrack

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Do you know of any better methods of communicating with her besides the phone?
 

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texting works well.. and talking when we are close to each other (IE walking together).

We don't go to the same school BTW
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I guess it'll only be fair if I add the fact that she likes to complain about the fact that she's tired from basketball practice and she's sore and stuff. But she says she doesn't ant to get off the phone.

But one of the other girls I talk to has cheerleading everyday. She complains about being sore sometimes but that doesn't affect her conversation skills.
 
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