You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Thanks Fzatf.
I obviously look good by the 22 year old women I'm dating's stretch.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That's just simply false. Why are most bodybuilders and olympic lifters short then?
People arent trying to give him crap they are actually trying to help him. If you can't detect what's going on through the subtext, i don't blame you.
That picture was Thursday? Wasn't the same chick wearing that outfit a month ago? What do you take this stripper out dressed in a Star Trek Halloween costume on dates? Does she wear the same outfit dancing on a pole at the horny toad? Or do you pay her to wear your favorite pigtails, dress up as the SS Enterprise and Klingon baby talk to you?Thanks Fzatf.
I wonder the same thing myself.
I've just said This is me, this is my favorite girl, this was our relationship, this was our breakup, this was how I got her back.
I obviously look good by the 22 year old women I'm dating's stretch.
Thursday:
Sunday:
Again with the Eastern Euro look.Thanks Fzatf.
I wonder the same thing myself.
I've just said This is me, this is my favorite girl, this was our relationship, this was our breakup, this was how I got her back.
I obviously look good by the 22 year old women I'm dating's stretch.
Thursday:
Sunday:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Previously I'd said the same thing to Delusioneil. He shot back "they're American". LMAO. Righto.
Wow, now you guys are thousands of miles wrong.
Hideous? Truth be told, never in your life were you ever with a girl this hot (age 21).
Neil you strike me as the type of dude so desperate for these strippers approval that you most likely show them all your posts on so suave "defending their honor" for brownie points.Hideous? All you just proved is you have awful taste in women.
And here is the second one who you "can't tell" is hot.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If they found it, they wouldn't call me a liar.
Bro honestly I think that first girl is a 5-6 maybe? The only reasons she even gets that is because she is 21. She won't age well. She does nothing for me. To each their own though.Hideous? Truth be told, never in your life were you ever with a girl this hot (age 21).
All you just proved is you have awful taste in women.
And here is the second one who you "can't tell" is hot.
PS - The Star Trek photo was a reference. Thursday (last night's) photos have not been processed yet. Stay tuned.
That only means your vote is way off consensus, hence I show consensus to remove the ability for any one member here to shamelessly, unilaterally declare whether a particular girl is hot or not.
stop lying delusioneil. you know damn well you are so insecure and needy for their approval you show them every post you make defending their honor.
So you're criticizing Photofeeler, the girls, or me? Or all of the above? Why not show me hotter women?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
As usual, if you give people enough rope they hang themselves. Here is what the survey said.
That you are a virgin with bad taste in women.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
