"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She's back
- Thread starter Mavrick
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
your emotions got the best of you and if you dont learn from this lesson, how will you be able to better yourself?
Ive been in a simular position before..its fighting the urge to call and let her know how you feel. Now, what I do is when I get that urge, I think about how the guys here would want me to act or at least which course of action to take.
Think of it this way. Put yourself in a emotional diet. everytime you get the craving...keep busy, go on a bike ride, call up your boys or even pick up a dirty or two. that way you sorta distract yourself from the emotions/urges.
Its not a lifetime fix but it could be a step in the right direction.