"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She's back
- Thread starter Mavrick
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
your emotions got the best of you and if you dont learn from this lesson, how will you be able to better yourself?
Ive been in a simular position before..its fighting the urge to call and let her know how you feel. Now, what I do is when I get that urge, I think about how the guys here would want me to act or at least which course of action to take.
Think of it this way. Put yourself in a emotional diet. everytime you get the craving...keep busy, go on a bike ride, call up your boys or even pick up a dirty or two. that way you sorta distract yourself from the emotions/urges.
Its not a lifetime fix but it could be a step in the right direction.