You know what I hate? When girls use the "I have a boyfriend" excuse for being antisocial. I live on a co-ed floor, half the girls are antisocial because they have a boyfriend. "Hey do you want to get some lunch?" Her reply, "sorry I have a boyfriend." Okay, she didn't say it like that. You get the idea.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
she's antisocial b/c she has a bf
- Thread starter Caesar
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
Maybe they actually do have boyfriends and they respect the notion of loyalty?
They know the offer of lunch is a ruse for something more so they blew you off...
They know the offer of lunch is a ruse for something more so they blew you off...
You realize that anti-social behavior is doing sh!t like burn cats, vandalize buildings, and run with gang bangers, right?
I think you were thinking of another word.
rejecting you = doesnt mean something is wrong with her / them.
It means that you are doing something wrong to not coax them out of their shell.
I think you were thinking of another word.
rejecting you = doesnt mean something is wrong with her / them.
It means that you are doing something wrong to not coax them out of their shell.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
They dont wanna f*ck you...end.
Who says I'm trying to get in their pants? Maybe I just want more friends. I'm actually friends with some of their boyfriends. You guys obviously have never lived on a coed floor in college. The past years I have lived on one we did everything together, eating, partying.
Ceasar, they know you're hot stuff, they're just afraid they'll end up fvcking you and cheat on their boyfriend. I've seen it happen before. Yes nothing more needs to be said in this thread. Next one to post can lick my sac.
lol only a dude trying to score would get mad that a girl isn't paying any attention to them.
and on that note if your friends with a girl and she blows you off for another guy/boyfriend its pretty safe to assume you also want to get in her pants and the "friendship" is just a ruse or mask behind your true motives.
think about it, if you went up to a dude and say wanna have lunch and he said nah man i got a g/f would you be just as pissed
NOPE
and on that note if your friends with a girl and she blows you off for another guy/boyfriend its pretty safe to assume you also want to get in her pants and the "friendship" is just a ruse or mask behind your true motives.
think about it, if you went up to a dude and say wanna have lunch and he said nah man i got a g/f would you be just as pissed
NOPE
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
Does christz get to lick your sac or do i?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Actually, the first definition of anti-social is "Shunning the society of others; not sociable".
You're thinking of the second definition, which is "Hostile to or disruptive of the established social order; marked by or engaging in behavior that violates accepted mores: gangs engaging in vandalism and other antisocial behavior".
Just thought I'd clear that up.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Your "are" trying to get in their pants!!! You just don't know it yet!!!
See... you don't even know what you want!!