You know what I hate? When girls use the "I have a boyfriend" excuse for being antisocial. I live on a co-ed floor, half the girls are antisocial because they have a boyfriend. "Hey do you want to get some lunch?" Her reply, "sorry I have a boyfriend." Okay, she didn't say it like that. You get the idea.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
she's antisocial b/c she has a bf
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
Maybe they actually do have boyfriends and they respect the notion of loyalty?
They know the offer of lunch is a ruse for something more so they blew you off...
They know the offer of lunch is a ruse for something more so they blew you off...
You realize that anti-social behavior is doing sh!t like burn cats, vandalize buildings, and run with gang bangers, right?
I think you were thinking of another word.
rejecting you = doesnt mean something is wrong with her / them.
It means that you are doing something wrong to not coax them out of their shell.
I think you were thinking of another word.
rejecting you = doesnt mean something is wrong with her / them.
It means that you are doing something wrong to not coax them out of their shell.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
They dont wanna f*ck you...end.
Who says I'm trying to get in their pants? Maybe I just want more friends. I'm actually friends with some of their boyfriends. You guys obviously have never lived on a coed floor in college. The past years I have lived on one we did everything together, eating, partying.
Ceasar, they know you're hot stuff, they're just afraid they'll end up fvcking you and cheat on their boyfriend. I've seen it happen before. Yes nothing more needs to be said in this thread. Next one to post can lick my sac.
lol only a dude trying to score would get mad that a girl isn't paying any attention to them.
and on that note if your friends with a girl and she blows you off for another guy/boyfriend its pretty safe to assume you also want to get in her pants and the "friendship" is just a ruse or mask behind your true motives.
think about it, if you went up to a dude and say wanna have lunch and he said nah man i got a g/f would you be just as pissed
NOPE
and on that note if your friends with a girl and she blows you off for another guy/boyfriend its pretty safe to assume you also want to get in her pants and the "friendship" is just a ruse or mask behind your true motives.
think about it, if you went up to a dude and say wanna have lunch and he said nah man i got a g/f would you be just as pissed
NOPE
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
Does christz get to lick your sac or do i?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Giovanni Casanova
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Actually, the first definition of anti-social is "Shunning the society of others; not sociable".
You're thinking of the second definition, which is "Hostile to or disruptive of the established social order; marked by or engaging in behavior that violates accepted mores: gangs engaging in vandalism and other antisocial behavior".
Just thought I'd clear that up.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Your "are" trying to get in their pants!!! You just don't know it yet!!!
See... you don't even know what you want!!