"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shes always talking about her ''exes''

whatdude

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Okay, I been with this girl for about two months now, and yea we fvck and everything seems too good to be true. I absolutely dig this girl and she digs me. However, she always seems to bring her ex-boyfriends up, like out of nowhere she will be reminded of ''this one time'' ...

She also goes into detail about her previous relationships with them, and I feel kinda weird because I dont bring up my ex-girlfriends. I don't know what to do... do you guys think she still has a ''thing'' for her ex-boyfriends or what? .. Cuz I kinda feel stupid when she mentions them, but I dont want to be a d1ck and say something.

Also, her mother yells at her when she mentions her last ex to me... yet she STILL brings him up, everyday.

Gimmie your input.

Later
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten

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her mother yells when she brings up the ex, because she wants her daughter to learn to shut up.
some girls that are young just have to learn when to keep their mouths closed and stuff.
when they get older and do it, they are either stupid or trying to make you jealous.
 

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Just tell her you dont give a **** about her exes and that u dont wanna hear about them. literally say that.

next time she says

"well this one time..."


you say

"hey guess what? this one time i didnt give a **** about ur ex so i dont wanna hear about all that".
 

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whatdude said:
Also, her mother yells at her when she mentions her last ex to me... yet she STILL brings him up, everyday.

Gimmie your input
Ok, if she's mentioning her last bf every day, that would make me wonder if I were you. Also, have you tried telling her in so many words to shut the f*ck up about her ex? That would work wonders, I'd bet.
 

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Tell her to drop it, or else... NEXT!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Next time she opens her mouth about her ex boyfriend just start to open yours and say something like: " yeah and one time me and my ex-girlfriend were fvcking in the car and I was spanking her ass and man to this day I can never forget that ass" and give her this look like (listen b1tch you don't want to play fire with fire cause my gun is much bigger).

Do this every time and she will eventually get the hint.

DJD
 

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DJDamage said:
Next time she opens her mouth about her ex boyfriend just start to open yours and say something like: " yeah and one time me and my ex-girlfriend were fvcking in the car and I was spanking her ass and man to this day I can never forget that ass" and give her this look like (listen b1tch you don't want to play fire with fire cause my gun is much bigger).

Do this every time and she will eventually get the hint.

DJD
You are a very, very angry man.

Anyway, like I said before the fact that she does that is not good. I wouldn't be surprised if he were still around in some capacity-the ex. You need to set boundaries and do it NOW. Tell her no more talking about him, and in fact finding out if she is still hung up on him might be good. You may be the rebound. Or she might be doing it to make you jealous. In any event, you need clarification of what's going on and then you need to fix your situation.
 
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far from average said:
You are a very, very angry man.

Anyway, like I said before the fact that she does that is not good. I wouldn't be surprised if he were still around in some capacity-the ex. You need to set boundaries and do it NOW. Tell her no more talking about him, and in fact finding out if she is still hung up on him might be good. You may be the rebound. Or she might be doing it to make you jealous. In any event, you need clarification of what's going on and then you need to fix your situation.
Yes he is a angry MAN. A whole lot better than a pu**y. Which i'm guessing he gets plenty off.

Amen to angry people.:)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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