"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Shes always talking about her ''exes''

whatdude

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Okay, I been with this girl for about two months now, and yea we fvck and everything seems too good to be true. I absolutely dig this girl and she digs me. However, she always seems to bring her ex-boyfriends up, like out of nowhere she will be reminded of ''this one time'' ...

She also goes into detail about her previous relationships with them, and I feel kinda weird because I dont bring up my ex-girlfriends. I don't know what to do... do you guys think she still has a ''thing'' for her ex-boyfriends or what? .. Cuz I kinda feel stupid when she mentions them, but I dont want to be a d1ck and say something.

Also, her mother yells at her when she mentions her last ex to me... yet she STILL brings him up, everyday.

Gimmie your input.

Later
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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penkitten

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her mother yells when she brings up the ex, because she wants her daughter to learn to shut up.
some girls that are young just have to learn when to keep their mouths closed and stuff.
when they get older and do it, they are either stupid or trying to make you jealous.
 

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Just tell her you dont give a **** about her exes and that u dont wanna hear about them. literally say that.

next time she says

"well this one time..."


you say

"hey guess what? this one time i didnt give a **** about ur ex so i dont wanna hear about all that".
 

far from average

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whatdude said:
Also, her mother yells at her when she mentions her last ex to me... yet she STILL brings him up, everyday.

Gimmie your input
Ok, if she's mentioning her last bf every day, that would make me wonder if I were you. Also, have you tried telling her in so many words to shut the f*ck up about her ex? That would work wonders, I'd bet.
 

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Tell her to drop it, or else... NEXT!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Next time she opens her mouth about her ex boyfriend just start to open yours and say something like: " yeah and one time me and my ex-girlfriend were fvcking in the car and I was spanking her ass and man to this day I can never forget that ass" and give her this look like (listen b1tch you don't want to play fire with fire cause my gun is much bigger).

Do this every time and she will eventually get the hint.

DJD
 

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DJDamage said:
Next time she opens her mouth about her ex boyfriend just start to open yours and say something like: " yeah and one time me and my ex-girlfriend were fvcking in the car and I was spanking her ass and man to this day I can never forget that ass" and give her this look like (listen b1tch you don't want to play fire with fire cause my gun is much bigger).

Do this every time and she will eventually get the hint.

DJD
You are a very, very angry man.

Anyway, like I said before the fact that she does that is not good. I wouldn't be surprised if he were still around in some capacity-the ex. You need to set boundaries and do it NOW. Tell her no more talking about him, and in fact finding out if she is still hung up on him might be good. You may be the rebound. Or she might be doing it to make you jealous. In any event, you need clarification of what's going on and then you need to fix your situation.
 
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far from average said:
You are a very, very angry man.

Anyway, like I said before the fact that she does that is not good. I wouldn't be surprised if he were still around in some capacity-the ex. You need to set boundaries and do it NOW. Tell her no more talking about him, and in fact finding out if she is still hung up on him might be good. You may be the rebound. Or she might be doing it to make you jealous. In any event, you need clarification of what's going on and then you need to fix your situation.
Yes he is a angry MAN. A whole lot better than a pu**y. Which i'm guessing he gets plenty off.

Amen to angry people.:)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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