"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She's a DJ. None of my moves work

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Jazzi used to live down here, and when she did, my game used to work on her. But she moved up to NYC for 3-4 years. She came back and my game was workin a lil bit. But when she went back to school, boys were checkin for her left and right (she got a nice ass body and she dresses fly). And it seems now she has an attitude like a male DJ (but instead of gettin lots of sex, she's gettin money out these boys)

So I'm tryin to figure out how do I seperate myself from them? I'm not tryna look like another dude tryna holla at her.

Last week, I was tryna throw game down hard (I was tryna my hardest to show that I'm the man and shes gonna have to look up to me). So she pulled out her phone and showed me a few of her text msgs she got from some boys (she was prolly tryna show me that shes on my level). Here's what I remember:

"ay I got money in the bank, shawtie what you drank?"
"I'm just tryin to chill, you act like I'm tryin to smash or somethin"
"Wanna do somethin this weekend?"

They were all from different dudes. I didnt act surprised, I just kept it cool, gave her props and told her "don't forget to ask em where the cash at, and bring it back". She laugh a lil bit and was like OK (of course we were just playin though)

Do I continue to show my alphaness? I think she is resistant because she knows what I've done with the girls around her. And she's tryin not to be just another one.

What am I suppose to do in this situation?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No that's not what I meant.

By not falling all over those other men, she's gettin them to spend money on her to win her over.

Of course, that's what I consider a female DJ. Male DJs have different goals so our rules are slightly different.
 

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Don't take this the wrong way but I do you really talk like that? With "shawty"? I've never encountered any people doing this, and have only seen similar stuff in tv.

You stop talking to her. While some afcs are sending her sms, you're getting real numbers from women who want to (date).
 

[R]eality

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She's normal and you're retarded cuz you listen to virgins for advice!
 
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