"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She's a DJ. None of my moves work

Bigg Boss

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Jazzi used to live down here, and when she did, my game used to work on her. But she moved up to NYC for 3-4 years. She came back and my game was workin a lil bit. But when she went back to school, boys were checkin for her left and right (she got a nice ass body and she dresses fly). And it seems now she has an attitude like a male DJ (but instead of gettin lots of sex, she's gettin money out these boys)

So I'm tryin to figure out how do I seperate myself from them? I'm not tryna look like another dude tryna holla at her.

Last week, I was tryna throw game down hard (I was tryna my hardest to show that I'm the man and shes gonna have to look up to me). So she pulled out her phone and showed me a few of her text msgs she got from some boys (she was prolly tryna show me that shes on my level). Here's what I remember:

"ay I got money in the bank, shawtie what you drank?"
"I'm just tryin to chill, you act like I'm tryin to smash or somethin"
"Wanna do somethin this weekend?"

They were all from different dudes. I didnt act surprised, I just kept it cool, gave her props and told her "don't forget to ask em where the cash at, and bring it back". She laugh a lil bit and was like OK (of course we were just playin though)

Do I continue to show my alphaness? I think she is resistant because she knows what I've done with the girls around her. And she's tryin not to be just another one.

What am I suppose to do in this situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bigg Boss

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No that's not what I meant.

By not falling all over those other men, she's gettin them to spend money on her to win her over.

Of course, that's what I consider a female DJ. Male DJs have different goals so our rules are slightly different.
 

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Don't take this the wrong way but I do you really talk like that? With "shawty"? I've never encountered any people doing this, and have only seen similar stuff in tv.

You stop talking to her. While some afcs are sending her sms, you're getting real numbers from women who want to (date).
 

[R]eality

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She's normal and you're retarded cuz you listen to virgins for advice!
 
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