"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She's a DJ. None of my moves work

Bigg Boss

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Jazzi used to live down here, and when she did, my game used to work on her. But she moved up to NYC for 3-4 years. She came back and my game was workin a lil bit. But when she went back to school, boys were checkin for her left and right (she got a nice ass body and she dresses fly). And it seems now she has an attitude like a male DJ (but instead of gettin lots of sex, she's gettin money out these boys)

So I'm tryin to figure out how do I seperate myself from them? I'm not tryna look like another dude tryna holla at her.

Last week, I was tryna throw game down hard (I was tryna my hardest to show that I'm the man and shes gonna have to look up to me). So she pulled out her phone and showed me a few of her text msgs she got from some boys (she was prolly tryna show me that shes on my level). Here's what I remember:

"ay I got money in the bank, shawtie what you drank?"
"I'm just tryin to chill, you act like I'm tryin to smash or somethin"
"Wanna do somethin this weekend?"

They were all from different dudes. I didnt act surprised, I just kept it cool, gave her props and told her "don't forget to ask em where the cash at, and bring it back". She laugh a lil bit and was like OK (of course we were just playin though)

Do I continue to show my alphaness? I think she is resistant because she knows what I've done with the girls around her. And she's tryin not to be just another one.

What am I suppose to do in this situation?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No that's not what I meant.

By not falling all over those other men, she's gettin them to spend money on her to win her over.

Of course, that's what I consider a female DJ. Male DJs have different goals so our rules are slightly different.
 

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Don't take this the wrong way but I do you really talk like that? With "shawty"? I've never encountered any people doing this, and have only seen similar stuff in tv.

You stop talking to her. While some afcs are sending her sms, you're getting real numbers from women who want to (date).
 

[R]eality

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She's normal and you're retarded cuz you listen to virgins for advice!
 
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