Cmon man, how great would it be for this new husband to see her o face while her old boyfriend is banging her. Tell me he could ever look at his wife/hooker in the same way ever again. Now that is sweet, sweeter than yohoo.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She'll get married soon and I got invited.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
If you can't get it done let another guy do it.
R
Ranger
Guest
LMAO. You do have a point Speed. I just would’nt want to thrash the poor guy. Let him have his make believe world. I like the idea that I now own her in a way. She knows she’s a dirty girl and she knows I know it. If she comes to me for some extra she knows how to get on her knees.
It’s a power game if you think about it. She knows where she belongs. It’s where she feels the best.
kbbroiler1971
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Sade. I don’t want to knock you but don’t you have any self respect for yourself? Why would you even consider this and going to their wedding after she cheated on with the guy she is marrying. I’m going to say something right now. First don’t be happy for them. Be mad. She screwed you and ****ed another guy whom she is marrying. You know how I deal with my exes. I’ve made it very clear over Facebook don’t contact me. I know some of their friends so I’m pretty sure that I won’t be a back up plan or a captain save a hoe. This is not immature. This is having self respect and being honest. Sade not to ripoff The Empire Strikes Back but you have to unlearn what you have learned through your life. For get this nice being happy for the BS be angry. I’m not telling you to destroy their wedding or doing anything harmful to anyone. However one thing you are emotionally doing to yourself is harmful to yourself. I was in a similar situation like this when I was in my early 20’s and I’m 47 now. My ex didn’t get married but if you do not go through these emotions it will affect you for as long as you suppress them.
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
I don't entirely agree with this. You're discounting the fact that some people are just nuts.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
R
Ranger
Guest
There could be truth in what you say but on her part she could have been seeing him the whole time she was the poster’s girlfriend.
Either way he owns restaurants. Well played. I salute her. Well played Hypergamy.
