Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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She'll get married soon and I got invited.

highSpeed

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I was thinking this same thing. Oh the sweetness of it. Lol
I wouldn’t send pictures though. I would let it ride.
Cmon man, how great would it be for this new husband to see her o face while her old boyfriend is banging her. Tell me he could ever look at his wife/hooker in the same way ever again. Now that is sweet, sweeter than yohoo.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The most awesome revenge in the world would be to bed her somehow at the wedding and then send pictures to the new husband (read fool). Put the pictures under the seats of all the guests
If you can't get it done let another guy do it.
 
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Cmon man, how great would it be for this new husband to see her o face while her old boyfriend is banging her. Tell me he could ever look at his wife/hooker in the same way ever again. Now that is sweet, sweeter than yohoo.
LMAO. You do have a point Speed. I just would’nt want to thrash the poor guy. Let him have his make believe world. I like the idea that I now own her in a way. She knows she’s a dirty girl and she knows I know it. If she comes to me for some extra she knows how to get on her knees.
It’s a power game if you think about it. She knows where she belongs. It’s where she feels the best.
 

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Sade. I don’t want to knock you but don’t you have any self respect for yourself? Why would you even consider this and going to their wedding after she cheated on with the guy she is marrying. I’m going to say something right now. First don’t be happy for them. Be mad. She screwed you and ****ed another guy whom she is marrying. You know how I deal with my exes. I’ve made it very clear over Facebook don’t contact me. I know some of their friends so I’m pretty sure that I won’t be a back up plan or a captain save a hoe. This is not immature. This is having self respect and being honest. Sade not to ripoff The Empire Strikes Back but you have to unlearn what you have learned through your life. For get this nice being happy for the BS be angry. I’m not telling you to destroy their wedding or doing anything harmful to anyone. However one thing you are emotionally doing to yourself is harmful to yourself. I was in a similar situation like this when I was in my early 20’s and I’m 47 now. My ex didn’t get married but if you do not go through these emotions it will affect you for as long as you suppress them.
 

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This is so blatant that I’m having trouble understanding your question. If a woman marries a man after five months, he’s Brad Pitt with millions.
I don't entirely agree with this. You're discounting the fact that some people are just nuts.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't entirely agree with this. You're discounting the fact that some people are just nuts.
There could be truth in what you say but on her part she could have been seeing him the whole time she was the poster’s girlfriend.
Either way he owns restaurants. Well played. I salute her. Well played Hypergamy.
 

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Thinking about going to the wedding of your cheating ex and the guy she cheated with ?

F#@K THAT !
 
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