I got this girls number and she described me as nice at the start so I up-ed the ****yness and now she tells me she is beggining to like my cheek (English for ****y). I haven't been very funny but my ****yness wasn't superstrong just more sarcasm and teasing and being sure of myself. I'm starting to think this cheekyness is a powerful athrodisiac.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Sheer ****yness - it seems to be working.
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- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What's with this ****yness thing?
I'm more than confident..in fact I'd call myself supremely confident, but I make an effort NOT to be ****y/sarcastic. I'm not disappointed with my success, I mean I've changed a lot, but it seems more people on this site are achieving success with ****yness and sarcasm.
Why & how does this work?
I have a fantastic sense of humour, but it's more of an action oriented humour, and while I can captivate the ladies telling cool stories, I've never tried to use sarcasm/****yness.
Please explain, for mr. clueless here!
thanks
I'm more than confident..in fact I'd call myself supremely confident, but I make an effort NOT to be ****y/sarcastic. I'm not disappointed with my success, I mean I've changed a lot, but it seems more people on this site are achieving success with ****yness and sarcasm.
Why & how does this work?
I have a fantastic sense of humour, but it's more of an action oriented humour, and while I can captivate the ladies telling cool stories, I've never tried to use sarcasm/****yness.
Please explain, for mr. clueless here!
thanks
CanuckinSK
Don Juan
In my experience confidence is the foundation that the house is built on. If you don't have the confidence, it's difficult to carry out the conversation skills successfully.BluEyes said:
When I was in HS, I had TONS of confidence, conceit really. I never had to use C+F. I think really confident and happy people just radiate positive vibes that really attract.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Boschy
Senior Don Juan
Like most of these techiques, you can do C&F well or you can stuff it up. Women read everything in your body language, tone of voice and your eyes. If you genuine and relaxed then C&F will work wonders.
If you forget or stuff up the funny/amusing/joking aspect, you end up with arrogance, which can work some some girls but most hate it unless you switch into charm mode before things go sour. Still, why worry about what they're thinking too much if your routine/character is consistent. Women turn off fast if they detect incongruency.
If you forget or stuff up the funny/amusing/joking aspect, you end up with arrogance, which can work some some girls but most hate it unless you switch into charm mode before things go sour. Still, why worry about what they're thinking too much if your routine/character is consistent. Women turn off fast if they detect incongruency.
DJ1234
Senior Don Juan
****yness is nice but just straight ****y doesn't work on every girl and it isn't as good as ****y and funny which is why they call it "C+F" not just ****y.
just dont OD it and the girl will probably like it...
just dont OD it and the girl will probably like it...
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
I like to tell girls I'm God. Now that's ****y!
Kev07
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I like thatValleyDJing said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.