I got this girls number and she described me as nice at the start so I up-ed the ****yness and now she tells me she is beggining to like my cheek (English for ****y). I haven't been very funny but my ****yness wasn't superstrong just more sarcasm and teasing and being sure of myself. I'm starting to think this cheekyness is a powerful athrodisiac.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sheer ****yness - it seems to be working.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What's with this ****yness thing?
I'm more than confident..in fact I'd call myself supremely confident, but I make an effort NOT to be ****y/sarcastic. I'm not disappointed with my success, I mean I've changed a lot, but it seems more people on this site are achieving success with ****yness and sarcasm.
Why & how does this work?
I have a fantastic sense of humour, but it's more of an action oriented humour, and while I can captivate the ladies telling cool stories, I've never tried to use sarcasm/****yness.
Please explain, for mr. clueless here!
thanks
I'm more than confident..in fact I'd call myself supremely confident, but I make an effort NOT to be ****y/sarcastic. I'm not disappointed with my success, I mean I've changed a lot, but it seems more people on this site are achieving success with ****yness and sarcasm.
Why & how does this work?
I have a fantastic sense of humour, but it's more of an action oriented humour, and while I can captivate the ladies telling cool stories, I've never tried to use sarcasm/****yness.
Please explain, for mr. clueless here!
thanks
CanuckinSK
Don Juan
In my experience confidence is the foundation that the house is built on. If you don't have the confidence, it's difficult to carry out the conversation skills successfully.BluEyes said:
When I was in HS, I had TONS of confidence, conceit really. I never had to use C+F. I think really confident and happy people just radiate positive vibes that really attract.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Boschy
Senior Don Juan
Like most of these techiques, you can do C&F well or you can stuff it up. Women read everything in your body language, tone of voice and your eyes. If you genuine and relaxed then C&F will work wonders.
If you forget or stuff up the funny/amusing/joking aspect, you end up with arrogance, which can work some some girls but most hate it unless you switch into charm mode before things go sour. Still, why worry about what they're thinking too much if your routine/character is consistent. Women turn off fast if they detect incongruency.
If you forget or stuff up the funny/amusing/joking aspect, you end up with arrogance, which can work some some girls but most hate it unless you switch into charm mode before things go sour. Still, why worry about what they're thinking too much if your routine/character is consistent. Women turn off fast if they detect incongruency.
DJ1234
Senior Don Juan
****yness is nice but just straight ****y doesn't work on every girl and it isn't as good as ****y and funny which is why they call it "C+F" not just ****y.
just dont OD it and the girl will probably like it...
just dont OD it and the girl will probably like it...
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
I like to tell girls I'm God. Now that's ****y!
Kev07
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I like thatValleyDJing said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.