I got this girls number and she described me as nice at the start so I up-ed the ****yness and now she tells me she is beggining to like my cheek (English for ****y). I haven't been very funny but my ****yness wasn't superstrong just more sarcasm and teasing and being sure of myself. I'm starting to think this cheekyness is a powerful athrodisiac.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Sheer ****yness - it seems to be working.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What's with this ****yness thing?
I'm more than confident..in fact I'd call myself supremely confident, but I make an effort NOT to be ****y/sarcastic. I'm not disappointed with my success, I mean I've changed a lot, but it seems more people on this site are achieving success with ****yness and sarcasm.
Why & how does this work?
I have a fantastic sense of humour, but it's more of an action oriented humour, and while I can captivate the ladies telling cool stories, I've never tried to use sarcasm/****yness.
Please explain, for mr. clueless here!
thanks
I'm more than confident..in fact I'd call myself supremely confident, but I make an effort NOT to be ****y/sarcastic. I'm not disappointed with my success, I mean I've changed a lot, but it seems more people on this site are achieving success with ****yness and sarcasm.
Why & how does this work?
I have a fantastic sense of humour, but it's more of an action oriented humour, and while I can captivate the ladies telling cool stories, I've never tried to use sarcasm/****yness.
Please explain, for mr. clueless here!
thanks
CanuckinSK
Don Juan
In my experience confidence is the foundation that the house is built on. If you don't have the confidence, it's difficult to carry out the conversation skills successfully.BluEyes said:
When I was in HS, I had TONS of confidence, conceit really. I never had to use C+F. I think really confident and happy people just radiate positive vibes that really attract.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Boschy
Senior Don Juan
Like most of these techiques, you can do C&F well or you can stuff it up. Women read everything in your body language, tone of voice and your eyes. If you genuine and relaxed then C&F will work wonders.
If you forget or stuff up the funny/amusing/joking aspect, you end up with arrogance, which can work some some girls but most hate it unless you switch into charm mode before things go sour. Still, why worry about what they're thinking too much if your routine/character is consistent. Women turn off fast if they detect incongruency.
If you forget or stuff up the funny/amusing/joking aspect, you end up with arrogance, which can work some some girls but most hate it unless you switch into charm mode before things go sour. Still, why worry about what they're thinking too much if your routine/character is consistent. Women turn off fast if they detect incongruency.
DJ1234
Senior Don Juan
****yness is nice but just straight ****y doesn't work on every girl and it isn't as good as ****y and funny which is why they call it "C+F" not just ****y.
just dont OD it and the girl will probably like it...
just dont OD it and the girl will probably like it...
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
I like to tell girls I'm God. Now that's ****y!
Kev07
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I like thatValleyDJing said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.