She wont tell you to go away but...

[johnnyrem]

You're being a stalker.

Creepy.

Get the hint. She's MARRIED, for Christ's sake.

Are you so desperate you can't find anyone else?

This thread is a bit trollish. Drop it.

 

[flexion_]

Why does it matter if she says it? Women never mean what they say... LOL

Just move on.

 

[blueguy]

I don't know your story, but from the sound of it, your continued behavior is exactly the reason you did not get the girl. You are not willing to walk away. Nobody ultimately wants to commit if they can keep searching for the better option, but they do commit in fear that their best option so far may soon leave. No woman will ever commit to a man that is unable to walk away. If he is always there, what does she fear losing? Just as this principle applies to business and other aspects of life, so does it apply to relationships. Do yourself a favor, and if you ultimately want this girl, walk away. Maybe she will be divorced in a few years. Then you can play your game better. But by then, I'm sure you will have found somebody else.

 

[Thugo]

well the reason i didn't get the grl is I was an idiot...

she told me at dinner she wanted to get maried because she feels alone in life (broken home, no family)...and I told her I wasn't ready... the ingored her for 2 weeks as I foolishly went on a pot smoking binge....


that's wy i lost her...

i am goingto walk away and never contact her again ok guys?


but is it too muchto believe that she possibly misses me just a little? by her actions and all... I mean she couldnt bring herself to say go away forver to me.

 

[Phyzzle]

i am goingto walk away and never contact her again ok guys?

YES! That gives me a warm, fuzzy feeling.

Just do it. Don't come back and say that you changed your mind, and you're gonna beg for another seven years.

We really don't want to hear that.

 

[Thugo]

YES! That gives me a warm, fuzzy feeling.

Just do it. Don't come back and say that you changed your mind, and you're gonna beg for another seven years.

We really don't want to hear that.

i know i know.. you're right... i still just dont undrstand why she cant just tell me togo to hell and leave her alone... give me peace.. i have dreams about this girl.. it's that bad.

 

[Brando SC]

Sounds like you guys pretty much handled this. But yeah Thugo, it's the harsh truth. She has told you she doesn't want to talk to you, just not in the way you want to hear it. You want it to be an outright NO, but they don't work that way. They don't just shut things off like that, ok some of them do, but they feel really bad about it. If they care even just a little bit about you, they're not going to try to hurt you anymore than they already have. So they'll just stop talking to you, and just live their life not worrying about you. So Thugo, you just need to move on. Go out there and find more women. I know you can do it. "Keep your eyes so open wide, look left to right, up and down turn around. becuase you never know..."