“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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She wont tell you to go away but...

johnnyrem

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You're being a stalker.

Creepy.

Get the hint. She's MARRIED, for Christ's sake.

Are you so desperate you can't find anyone else?

This thread is a bit trollish. Drop it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why does it matter if she says it? Women never mean what they say... LOL

Just move on.
 

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I don't know your story, but from the sound of it, your continued behavior is exactly the reason you did not get the girl. You are not willing to walk away. Nobody ultimately wants to commit if they can keep searching for the better option, but they do commit in fear that their best option so far may soon leave. No woman will ever commit to a man that is unable to walk away. If he is always there, what does she fear losing? Just as this principle applies to business and other aspects of life, so does it apply to relationships. Do yourself a favor, and if you ultimately want this girl, walk away. Maybe she will be divorced in a few years. Then you can play your game better. But by then, I'm sure you will have found somebody else.
 

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well the reason i didn't get the grl is I was an idiot...

she told me at dinner she wanted to get maried because she feels alone in life (broken home, no family)...and I told her I wasn't ready... the ingored her for 2 weeks as I foolishly went on a pot smoking binge....


that's wy i lost her...

i am goingto walk away and never contact her again ok guys?


but is it too muchto believe that she possibly misses me just a little? by her actions and all... I mean she couldnt bring herself to say go away forver to me.
 

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i am goingto walk away and never contact her again ok guys?
YES! That gives me a warm, fuzzy feeling.

Just do it. Don't come back and say that you changed your mind, and you're gonna beg for another seven years.

We really don't want to hear that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Phyzzle said:
YES! That gives me a warm, fuzzy feeling.

Just do it. Don't come back and say that you changed your mind, and you're gonna beg for another seven years.

We really don't want to hear that.

i know i know.. you're right... i still just dont undrstand why she cant just tell me togo to hell and leave her alone... give me peace.. i have dreams about this girl.. it's that bad.
 

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Sounds like you guys pretty much handled this. But yeah Thugo, it's the harsh truth. She has told you she doesn't want to talk to you, just not in the way you want to hear it. You want it to be an outright NO, but they don't work that way. They don't just shut things off like that, ok some of them do, but they feel really bad about it. If they care even just a little bit about you, they're not going to try to hurt you anymore than they already have. So they'll just stop talking to you, and just live their life not worrying about you. So Thugo, you just need to move on. Go out there and find more women. I know you can do it. "Keep your eyes so open wide, look left to right, up and down turn around. becuase you never know..."
 
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