"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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has any1 ever had this situation and why does it happen?
this chick and i were good friends we used to always talk and go surfing together. i thought she liked me, i really did. then one day i told her how i felt about her. she said she might go out wiht me after she is finished with some1 else.(she had a bf at the time). before i go any further i know its not wise to mess with a chick when she is in a relationship, but i couldn't wait.

So she rejected me, i'm ok with that.(well not really but i act like it). Then we just stopped talking and she doesn't wonna know me anymore. now we don't talk that often and never go surfing.

any1 know what the hell that is about
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You must be NEW! You NEVER tell a girl how you feel about her. It makes you look desperate and needy and AFC. That's why she feels uncomfortable with you, thus she doesn't want to go surfing with you anymore. Learn from your mistakes.
 
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Along with you, I'd love to know what it's about because a similar thing happened to me. She had a boyfriend, she liked me and she said that she was going to dump him for me. She dumped him alright, but the next day went out with another guy, and we haven't talked in a month, with the exception of today, when I saved her life (she almost got beat up) and because of that I got kicked out of my school.
 
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wholly **** u got expelled? do you mind sharing ur storey?
 
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why? why? look it happens to all of us. It did the same thing once a long time ago, in a much much worst way. but pease please dont ever do this again. you and her were good friends......FRIENDS, do you understand the term? you do not go from being best buddies to having a sexual relationship!!!!

she said she might go out with you after she finished with his current bf.....HAHAHA,she completly owned you, have some self respect man, do not take that **** from girls. You dont wait in line for some ho, you make a ho wait in line for you, youre the prize not her!!! HOLY ****.....learn from this, i will give you a list to learn:

1. DO NOT TELL A GIRL HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER.
2. DONT EXCPECT TO GET IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL WHO HAS BEEN YOUR FRIEND....The first thing you got to do when youre interested in a women is to let her know (not by telling her) that youre sexually interested in her. Other wise youll fall into the friends hell zone.
3. YOU DONT WAIT AROUND FOR GIRLS. Even is she was completly sincere about you being next in line you dont lower youself like that. Of course in the first place she wasnt, bc girls just dont say that, a girl who really likes a guy she will drop pretty much anything to be with that guy.
4. After a girl rejects you, theres is no coming back. IGNORE HER, FORGET HER.

theres your lesson for today, and do yourself a favor and go read the bible, bc that alone wont do.
 

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Re: Re: she wont talk to me

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why? why? look it happens to all of us. It did the same thing once a long time ago, in a much much worst way. but pease please dont ever do this again. you and her were good friends......FRIENDS, do you understand the term? you do not go from being best buddies to having a sexual relationship!!!!

she said she might go out with you after she finished with his current bf.....HAHAHA,she completly owned you, have some self respect man, do not take that **** from girls. You dont wait in line for some ho, you make a ho wait in line for you, youre the prize not her!!! HOLY ****.....learn from this, i will give you a list to learn:

1. DO NOT TELL A GIRL HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER.
2. DONT EXCPECT TO GET IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL WHO HAS BEEN YOUR FRIEND....The first thing you got to do when youre interested in a women is to let her know (not by telling her) that youre sexually interested in her. Other wise youll fall into the friends hell zone.
3. YOU DONT WAIT AROUND FOR GIRLS. Even is she was completly sincere about you being next in line you dont lower youself like that. Of course in the first place she wasnt, bc girls just dont say that, a girl who really likes a guy she will drop pretty much anything to be with that guy.
4. After a girl rejects you, theres is no coming back. IGNORE HER, FORGET HER.

theres your lesson for today, and do yourself a favor and go read the bible, bc that alone wont do.
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