"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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has any1 ever had this situation and why does it happen?
this chick and i were good friends we used to always talk and go surfing together. i thought she liked me, i really did. then one day i told her how i felt about her. she said she might go out wiht me after she is finished with some1 else.(she had a bf at the time). before i go any further i know its not wise to mess with a chick when she is in a relationship, but i couldn't wait.

So she rejected me, i'm ok with that.(well not really but i act like it). Then we just stopped talking and she doesn't wonna know me anymore. now we don't talk that often and never go surfing.

any1 know what the hell that is about
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You must be NEW! You NEVER tell a girl how you feel about her. It makes you look desperate and needy and AFC. That's why she feels uncomfortable with you, thus she doesn't want to go surfing with you anymore. Learn from your mistakes.
 
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Along with you, I'd love to know what it's about because a similar thing happened to me. She had a boyfriend, she liked me and she said that she was going to dump him for me. She dumped him alright, but the next day went out with another guy, and we haven't talked in a month, with the exception of today, when I saved her life (she almost got beat up) and because of that I got kicked out of my school.
 
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wholly **** u got expelled? do you mind sharing ur storey?
 
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why? why? look it happens to all of us. It did the same thing once a long time ago, in a much much worst way. but pease please dont ever do this again. you and her were good friends......FRIENDS, do you understand the term? you do not go from being best buddies to having a sexual relationship!!!!

she said she might go out with you after she finished with his current bf.....HAHAHA,she completly owned you, have some self respect man, do not take that **** from girls. You dont wait in line for some ho, you make a ho wait in line for you, youre the prize not her!!! HOLY ****.....learn from this, i will give you a list to learn:

1. DO NOT TELL A GIRL HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER.
2. DONT EXCPECT TO GET IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL WHO HAS BEEN YOUR FRIEND....The first thing you got to do when youre interested in a women is to let her know (not by telling her) that youre sexually interested in her. Other wise youll fall into the friends hell zone.
3. YOU DONT WAIT AROUND FOR GIRLS. Even is she was completly sincere about you being next in line you dont lower youself like that. Of course in the first place she wasnt, bc girls just dont say that, a girl who really likes a guy she will drop pretty much anything to be with that guy.
4. After a girl rejects you, theres is no coming back. IGNORE HER, FORGET HER.

theres your lesson for today, and do yourself a favor and go read the bible, bc that alone wont do.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Re: Re: she wont talk to me

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why? why? look it happens to all of us. It did the same thing once a long time ago, in a much much worst way. but pease please dont ever do this again. you and her were good friends......FRIENDS, do you understand the term? you do not go from being best buddies to having a sexual relationship!!!!

she said she might go out with you after she finished with his current bf.....HAHAHA,she completly owned you, have some self respect man, do not take that **** from girls. You dont wait in line for some ho, you make a ho wait in line for you, youre the prize not her!!! HOLY ****.....learn from this, i will give you a list to learn:

1. DO NOT TELL A GIRL HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER.
2. DONT EXCPECT TO GET IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL WHO HAS BEEN YOUR FRIEND....The first thing you got to do when youre interested in a women is to let her know (not by telling her) that youre sexually interested in her. Other wise youll fall into the friends hell zone.
3. YOU DONT WAIT AROUND FOR GIRLS. Even is she was completly sincere about you being next in line you dont lower youself like that. Of course in the first place she wasnt, bc girls just dont say that, a girl who really likes a guy she will drop pretty much anything to be with that guy.
4. After a girl rejects you, theres is no coming back. IGNORE HER, FORGET HER.

theres your lesson for today, and do yourself a favor and go read the bible, bc that alone wont do.
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