"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she will not shut up, confused

lordson

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recetnly ive been takling to this girl from work online for a while, using MSN, known her fer like a year

and lately we've gone out as freinds twice, and she is very talkative, she will not shut up, can not get a word in sideways

anyway, this is great cos i dont like talking much, all i have to do is nod, say "uh huh", smile and repeat

she is hot too, and thinks im good looking, but i think shes really talkative because she just wants to be freinds and considers me only and ever as a friend, ive watched her pupils, and they didn't dilate ever, Dammit!

ive beared my soul to her, my deepest darkest secrets, that was before i started being attracted to her, did i screw myself? i was bascally being myself,

any quick tips on how to make her like me? and what would be a good way of 1. subtlely showing her im intersted, and then 2. show her outright i want to be with her

shes also 22 and im 19, but shes shown that she would consider a relatioship with a 19 year old, cos she liked my friend for a bit, well recntly rather, a week ago, but nothign happened there

please dont tell me to read the bible, i already am, its so damn big

cheers fellas
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hound_of_Love

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In short, yes you're probably screwed.

Do a search of this site for 'Senor Fingers' and 'Escaping the Friendzone' (or something like that). Frankly though, it's going to be a lot of effort and probable disappointment.
 

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sorry, what is C & F

and MAVEC?

and it was kinda dimmed lights, indoors light and her no sparklking eyes

though i did look give her dierect eye ocntact for pretty much teh entire time

maybe i can trick her into liking mg
 
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