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Pandora

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Also think its important to note "game" can increase attraction but can't manufacture it

A lot of people saying above if she chooses you then its a pretty much done deal and you can't do anything wrong

this isn't true I've interacted with a lot of women where theres been some interest and I've either said the right thing or wrong thing which determines the outcome
Yes good point. Game can increase it not manufacture it. I will add that if a girl really like you then it will be relatively difficult to turn her off. Unless you do or say something really cringe. If you are hot enough she might even let that slide.
 

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I think they still do my mate is a club promoter overweight out 7 nights a week and still gets laid

he will very much be a "maybe" for vast majority of women he interacts with

Only thing thats change is where as before women would probably fvck "maybe guys" for fun

Now there has to be some sort of trade off

drugs / free drinks / perceived status / comedy

or she needs to be drunk / horny and you need to be in the right place at the right time
Yesss exactly. You have to be a maybe guy high status club promoter with your apartment within walking distance.
 

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The older you get the more your subcommunication should convey your value without having to think about it
For example, if you are truly confident it will speak in your actions without you having to manipulate it
If you are truly charismatic or charming it will speak in your interactions with women
If you're in your late 30s or 40s and you still have to think about these things you're not being congruent and to much in your head
by this time it should be formless and flow in the words of Bruce Lee like water
 

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Most of those guys are violating easily understandable personal distance rules that have been well validated. Most guys game is terrible. I am definitely certain a guy can lose out do to bad game. I've seen it many times. Yes you have a much wider window of opportunity when the woman is naturally attracted to you
I agree and this is why "game" will always be important.

Your looks will open the door ,but it doesn't mean your in. And even when your in her "personal hypothetical bouncer" has the right to kick you out at any moment.

I do however believe that game can actually earn you some bonus points because most men really DON'T approach / compliment women at all. Like when you suddenly happen to have a lotta money before she knew about it. Having game can be seen as being a "mental millionaire ", while no game means you're mentally broke. A broke man oftentimes will be less motivated to go after women because he will feel like he has nothing to offer.
 

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Only thing thats change is where as before women would probably fvck "maybe guys" for fun

Now there has to be some sort of trade off

drugs / free drinks / perceived status / comedy

or she needs to be drunk / horny and you need to be in the right place at the right time
I think the trade off has always been there. Your fat promoter friends gets laid because he offers women drugs. There's no great mystery there.
 

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