Great as in she thinks her status is raising by being with you or that she enjoys the emotional intensity you give her.
I used to experience big hits to my self-esteem when a woman would discard me after having good dates, after things going well objectively. It still happens to me these days. Meeting someone...good dates, flirting, sex, true compatibility and then she discards me for one detail or for not knowing how she feels. I think I still come across as nice guy and too available although I really try to monitor this.
I know Im no adavanced DJ yet but also know I have been quite decent with the women I refer to about. Applying what Ive learned in this forum and other sources. It feels as if unless I am clearly above her in status or can provide her with intense emotions consistently she will decide Im not good enough. These are women I could have done the same, I could have decided they were not great enough... I was not putting on pedestal, but felt they were cool enough to keep seeing.
Feels like having to be at your best or you are not considered good enough. I dont demand that of plates-partners..for me they just need to be hot enough and not annoying.
Do others feel this line of thought is correct or that I might be just doing something wrong consistently.?
I used to experience big hits to my self-esteem when a woman would discard me after having good dates, after things going well objectively. It still happens to me these days. Meeting someone...good dates, flirting, sex, true compatibility and then she discards me for one detail or for not knowing how she feels. I think I still come across as nice guy and too available although I really try to monitor this.
I know Im no adavanced DJ yet but also know I have been quite decent with the women I refer to about. Applying what Ive learned in this forum and other sources. It feels as if unless I am clearly above her in status or can provide her with intense emotions consistently she will decide Im not good enough. These are women I could have done the same, I could have decided they were not great enough... I was not putting on pedestal, but felt they were cool enough to keep seeing.
Feels like having to be at your best or you are not considered good enough. I dont demand that of plates-partners..for me they just need to be hot enough and not annoying.
Do others feel this line of thought is correct or that I might be just doing something wrong consistently.?