"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She went from shy to interested

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Been working on a new worksite for the last few weeks, the company that owns the site has a female supervisor for their employees. I arrived onsite she was pretty wary of me barely give me eye contact I sensed she felt a little intimidated. I've said hello a few times on other sites she's been on, never really had a one on one talk with her. I knew I needed to break the ice with her I'm going to be working with her for several months I don't need her acting strange with me. She's not so intimidated now I think I've sparked her interest :lol: What seemed to turn things around when I told her my age, women misjudge how old I'm her and I are both mid 40s born the same year.

What is interesting about her she's unmolested I don't mean anything sexually, most women her age have been through the ringer, got enough baggage to fill a tractor trailer, usually been married or are married, have children. She has none, never been married, single, she's a tomboy she's been in male dominated trades for a good chunk of her life, she isn't a girly girl she's attractive, she's not scared to get her hands dirty.

I think to myself fvck why didn't I ever run across a girl like her in the early years we are compatible today but she's on the down hill slide being in her mid 40s, like they say women don't get better with age, menopause is not too far behind. So many women I run into today they have issues my damaged woman meter in my head is always going off you can just sense they are fvcked up. Its not wise to mix business with pleasure she's off limits asking her out things don't work out then its just going to be messy working with her. The point is she is a rarity somebody her age that isn't riddled with issues, just a true down to earth girl.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She has none, never been married, single, she's a tomboy she's been in male dominated trades for a good chunk of her life, she isn't a girly girl she's attractive, she's not scared to get her hands dirty.
There is definitely a reason if you dig deep enough no matter how perfect she seems. I've ran into these a few times and have always uncovered something.
 

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There is definitely a reason if you dig deep enough no matter how perfect she seems. I've ran into these a few times and have always uncovered something.
True enough, I'm pretty cautious after being with a borderline woman a guy really investigates before he gets involved with women.
 

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Do you ever actually fvck or just posts with excuses?
There is very little to **** around here, damaged women, single mothers galore. Younger women are around but when they are half your age. A buddy of mine he’s sick of the sh*t too. This one I talking about in the post she’s decent I’d probably go out with her. I can’t mess up the contract the company I work for if things got ugly. I’ve learned my lesson don’t mix pleasure with business women always win. Close to 6000 dollars a week on this job for the trades company I work for.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There is very little to **** around here, damaged women, single mothers galore. Younger women are around but when they are half your age. A buddy of mine he’s sick of the sh*t too. This one I talking about in the post she’s decent I’d probably go out with her. I can’t mess up the contract the company I work for if things got ugly. I’ve learned my lesson don’t mix pleasure with business women always win. Close to 6000 dollars a week on this job for the trades company I work for.
You don't have to bang the damaged women or single mothers. Just joke around with them and have a good time with them.
 
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