I went on a date with a girl I met online. I took her to a nice restaurant and got her flowers but she turned away when I try to kiss her and rejected me. She then had sex with a jerk at a club that night. I know because my friend saw it and told me. It's so unfair.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She went for the jerk
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You played the nice guy. You didn't challenge her at all. Most women would have rejected you after that. Have you read the DJ bible?
QuadDeuces
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OP's a troll.
I am the nice guy and I fvcking hate alpha males and jerks stealing all the girls. Actually alpha male is just another name for jerk. Fvck the DJ bible and other PUA crap. I'm not going to challenge a girl like a stupid jerk.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
He didn't actually see the sex you idiot. He saw him hitting on her and then kissing passionately and then going into a bathroom with her and were in there quite awhile. WTF do you think they were doing in there dummy?
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They're going to have you banned.
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