I went on a date with a girl I met online. I took her to a nice restaurant and got her flowers but she turned away when I try to kiss her and rejected me. She then had sex with a jerk at a club that night. I know because my friend saw it and told me. It's so unfair.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She went for the jerk
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You played the nice guy. You didn't challenge her at all. Most women would have rejected you after that. Have you read the DJ bible?
QuadDeuces
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OP's a troll.
I am the nice guy and I fvcking hate alpha males and jerks stealing all the girls. Actually alpha male is just another name for jerk. Fvck the DJ bible and other PUA crap. I'm not going to challenge a girl like a stupid jerk.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
He didn't actually see the sex you idiot. He saw him hitting on her and then kissing passionately and then going into a bathroom with her and were in there quite awhile. WTF do you think they were doing in there dummy?
logicallefty
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They're going to have you banned.
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