Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You'lll have to deal with a single shred of sh1t that i've said that is relative to the set over a lifetime of about 18 years to be worth a sh!te whilst talking to me, I'm afraid.
Very silly tbh.
Can't be arsed to deal with you proper on a Thursday.
Be decent and discuss the set, or I'll be a cvnt, quite simply. Speak to the set "julian on the sosuave forum" you might understand?
Fvcking yank. Intelligent american goes to the library and learn about England.
If you want to talk to me on a set, here I am. Bloody donkey.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lol yall jailed tommy robinson for hate speech. Ur mayor of london said stabbings an acid attacks are part an parcel of living there. You whites are getting cucked to the max. Your right you are a decade ahead of us as far as refugee crisis levels of immigration occur because its happening here too just not to the degree of your country. Sucks to suck bro. I have family ties in europe i know the politics kiddo. Maybe u should go suck on a crumpet.I know you are trying to be clever. Har har.
You literally have no idea of the politics in my country, or what is happening currently. It is proper funny and incomprehensible to a yank.
Mate, we are like a decade or two ahead of you, you complete donkey!!! I'm being serious here lol
Just an absolute piss take, it really is. Fine then deal with the set, you wally.
Oh I see. You are telling me how it is, although I've lived here all my live and seen every single cultural shift however slight.
You really are a bloody moron.
I shall speak in american yankie doodle day terms, because that is all you understand. The conservatives have won the last 4 votes, yes?? Can you even imagine that as an american and I'm being serious.
The English conservatives are currently having a laugh knowing how weak the left are. Again, can you even imagine that being a cvck american?
Five straight wins (which will almost certainly come about if the left have the balls to challenge the queen) will be an ego death.
I really don't think you understand how at the forefront we are compared to you simpleton yankee bloody doodlies.
Bloody bunch of idiots in understanding the grand scheme of things, serious.
Go fetch me some ale you wenchYou really don't have a clue. And are close to the level of a women.
Mate, speak about the set, whatever it was. Don't keep getting silly. You want to speak about my nation when it's bloody amazing tbh and you can tell me any that's better you complete plonker. Stop being a gaylord.
It is thread hi-jack he learned it from muslims!LOL, is this some monty python skit we're watching?