"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She was Dripping.... Then dry?

Slick101

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Havent seen my GF in 2 weeks...

After 2 weeks... I came over and we were having sex.... she was tight,..... but then soooo fvcking wet... she was dripping and needed to stop to get a towel and wipe herself (NO ITS NOT HER SWEAT)

Then about 2 hours later when we were doing it again..... she was stilll very turned on.... but it was hard to get it in.... and she wasnt wet at all!!!!!

WTF HAPPENED HERE?

Usually we can do it like 5 times in a row after every hour and she can still be wet....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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nubian-knight

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Slick101 said:
Havent seen my GF in 2 weeks...

After 2 weeks... I came over and we were having sex.... she was tight,..... but then soooo fvcking wet... she was dripping and needed to stop to get a towel and wipe herself (NO ITS NOT HER SWEAT)

Then about 2 hours later when we were doing it again..... she was stilll very turned on.... but it was hard to get it in.... and she wasnt wet at all!!!!!

WTF HAPPENED HERE?

Usually we can do it like 5 times in a row after every hour and she can still be wet....

what happaned is 2 hours went by. sometimes, like our d!cks, girls dont function up to par down there. Some times their soaking, sometimes their dry as the desert. Who knows whats going on down there but dont worry about it. Use lube, lap it up with ur tongue or just wait for another time.

Dont make her feel bad about it. Thats basically equivelant to a girl giving you sh!t for not getting it up...not cool
 

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Maybe it was a fluke and not worth worrying about? Maybe she was dehydrated from the 1st go around? Not sure it's worth giving much thought about until it becomes a repeated issue or she stops getting moist altogether.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonS said:
Once a chick gets a complex about any aspect of her sexuality, you'll be getting a lot less, and it will suck. Make her feel wonderful and sexy about her body and she'll put out.
100% true. Don't make a big deal out of it unless it keeps on happening continuously.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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It happens.... Quit overreacting
 

Slick101

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As a matter of fact I wasnt over reacting at all...

It was just a question LOL
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Keep a can of WD40 close to hand.
 

jafyk

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Chipleader said:
Keep a can of WD40 close to hand.
Lol, rofl and get ready to go to jail for puss poisoning.
 

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If you're this emotionally dependent on someone else, maybe you should ditch her and work on yourself. You're a worrywart, and you seem to think the worst. Try thinking the best, man. What would be the best thing to think about in the situation? Well, you're getting some tail whether it's wet or dry. That should be good enough right there. When she starts making excuses not to have sex, then you can worry. Until then, just hit it.

Maybe you need to pull her hair and call her a dirty little cvnt.
 

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you have an eye for details...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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