She wants you to kiss her

[El MonoLoco]

Here's a little something I picked up way back in the day as an AFC that i think some of you newbies might be interested in knowing.....I haven't seen anyone mention this yet so here goes....

When ever you are talking to a girl, whether it be for the first time, 1st date, at a party, where ever there is one thing (out of many I'm sure) that a girl will do to tell you she wants you to kiss her right then.

She puts on lip gloss.

Usually it will be some kind of flavored stuff but I've seen it either way flavored or not. If she puts something on her lips it's on and you better react to it or you're gonna miss out.

I learned this from this one girl who was so interested in me that after she did it and I didn't recognize it she kissed me. She even told me afterwards that that's what she was doing. It was more like complaining that I didn't notice. After that moment of idiocy I have never forgotten that lesson. And it has worked well for me since, almost 100%.

 

[Tomatoes]

Chewing gum or mints is also a very strong indicator. I will normally have some chewing gum for a prelude to a kiss.

 

[foomee]

omg i was so thick headed when this happened. another sign is chapstick.. she was putting on chapstick and she asked me 3 times within 20mins if i wanted some. but i just say no thanks.. ugh that date turned out horrible at the end. i didn't realize till two days later that of course she wanted me to kiss her.

 

[El MonoLoco]

yep foomee

now you will never forget that lesson will you. I had the same realization. Only I had it told to me by the girl...she really wanted me....and she was goin with some football player at the time....she really wanted me.

 

[ScrewIt]

its true.

1) if a girl chews gum regularly with every encounter/date with you.. (offers gum to you also)
2) puts on lip gloss/chapstick
3) wears perfume when with you

then it's pretty obvious wouldnt u say?

chapped lips are no good fellas, bring your chapsticks!

 

[El MonoLoco]

Anyone else have any stories similar to this? I'm not sure how well known this is? I know I was clueless for years.....

 

[reyalp]

I had a date just a few days ago, she kept darting her eyes down to my lips, so I went in for the kiss.

But some girls are more overt about it than others.

 

[Jariel]

Yes, this is completely true in my experience. Another thing to look out for is when she tries to lead you somewhere quiet and private where you can make your move.

The more common sign to look out for is if she gets close, looks in your eyes and glances at your lips.

Girls will rarely make the first move to kiss a guy, but they understand the fears and so will try to make it as easy as possible.

Another thing to look out for is signs of impatience. Girls see it as the man's duty to make the first move and can actually get quite frustrated if you don't. I remember taking my gf to the cinema when we were first dating. Half way through the film, she folded her arms and he body language looked really cold. The old paranoid me would have guessed she lost interest and started panicking, but I'm more confident now and can read her quite well. So I leaned over and kissed her and we ended up making out for the rest of the movie. She later told me she didn't think much of the film, until half way through, because that's when I kissed her.

Another thing to keep in mind, if a girl doesn't want you to kiss her, she will make it difficult. When you get too close, for example, she'll back off or look away, or keep some distance between you. She won't look at you for very long, may hold her drink or something in the way.

 

[El MonoLoco]

Yes distance is key...But I still say watch out for the lip gloss/chapstick....If that ever comes out in conversation it's kissin time!