"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She Wants to Take a "Break" While She Studies Abroad

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I just saw your age - "19"!! And you are worry about a girl "cheating" on you??? There is no such thing as "cheating" on a pimp - loyalty is a condition reserved for your wife not a hor!!!

Don't worry about her --- worry about builing a life for youtself!!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Obsidian

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I actually don't think you should take it too hard. It's pretty understandable, imo. If I were going off to some exotic place for a while I probably wouldn't want to be tied down either.

That said, you should do like these guys said and forget about her. Date other girls if you find the opportunity.

I'm not real sure about the dumping her altogether thing before she leaves, tho. It's something to consider, but like I said, her feelings are pretty understandable. It's conceivable you might want to hook back up with her again in the future.

Of course, you could probably dump her and still hook back up with her later if you wanted, so I don't really know...
 

ThunderMaverick

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A break so you don't have to worry about her? OOOh so she's doing YOU a favor? Did you ever tell her you didn't trust her? How long have you two been together? Have you had trust issues with her before? Has she ever shown signs of being unfaithful? If you've said yes to all of these, then it's sure is swell of her to propose that idea.

Other than that it makes absolutely no sense. She wants to act outside of monogomy for her sake and put the problem on your lap. Like it's YOUR problem that she might cheat on you because she's studying abroad and might fvck someone else. If she said "I think we should break because I don't think I'll be faithful." I'd respect her more if she said that.

Just like a woman to shift the blame to you. Surprise surprise.
 
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ThunderMaverick said:
...If she said "I think we should break because I don't think I'll be faithful." I'd respect her more if she said that.
Actually, this is EXACTLY what she is saying...but he is too young and inexperienced to understand womaneese!!!
 

foamy

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I think she just wants some of that crazy European sex, as I would want that too.

let her go, she clearly wants to check out her options.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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