she wants the movies

[enrodrehern]

hey guys im talking to this one hotty and i suggested for a first date to go have a coffee and she said why not a movie better. i like the coffee idea better but she likes the idea of the movie i guess bc she cant go until after 9pm. i joked around with her about watching a horror movie and me holding her and she went with it really well. what do u guys think i should do? and any suggestions for the first date as in how i should act/behave?

thank you in advance.

 

[AAAgent]

be careful of movies. It's the easiest place for dj newbies to fail at.

movie's are hard for a first date beceause:

1.) no talking=no rapport
2.) very few options for kino. holdings hands most likely no. footsies=no, arms around shoulder no. horror movie might give you the highest percentage for kino and that still isn't that high.
3.) the movie ends and your date ended with almost nothing happening.

try to get dinner before a movie if a movie is a must or reschedule for an earlier time.

First date movies usually don't end up good and most of the time if its not a good date its a bad one.

 

[Diaforetikos]

What are you gonna do, find out cool information about her during the movie. You can't generate attraction just sitting next to her. And besides movie dates are gay. If she isn't comfortable around, any move you make will make you look desperate. Now this isn't ALWAYS the case, but it's generally happens.

Get coffee or ice cream, then take a walk somewhere. Is she young? That might be the reason.

 

[enrodrehern]

Thank you Agent and Dia...you guys are right and thats exactly what I thought. Haha dia...she is 26 maybe thats why

 

[Chromeo]

I think the younger the girl, the more likely she is going on a date with you already because she is attracted. So it will not really matter what you do with her.

Thats a main problem I think a lot of guys have is trying to ask girls out before they are actually attracted to them, then there is so much pressure put upon themselves to create that attraction on the date, when they could have just done that before hand and then gotten a hastle/worry free date with ease.

Just go and have fun, if shes already attracted you should be able to at least get a kiss after the movie if not an invite inside.

 

[enrodrehern]

See chromeo bc I know she is attracted to me, that's the reason I agreed to the movies and didn't see it as a major issue. Your right on dude. Thanks

 

[5string]

be careful of movies. It's the easiest place for dj newbies to fail at.

movie's are hard for a first date beceause:

1.) no talking=no rapport
2.) very few options for kino. holdings hands most likely no. footsies=no, arms around shoulder no. horror movie might give you the highest percentage for kino and that still isn't that high.
3.) the movie ends and your date ended with almost nothing happening.

try to get dinner before a movie if a movie is a must or reschedule for an earlier time.

First date movies usually don't end up good and most of the time if its not a good date its a bad one.

AAAgent nailed it. Movies are not good for the first few dates. If you do go, make sure to get a bottomless popcorn cup