"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She wants me to “manscape” the pubic hair!

CoandaEffect

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This morning in bed me and my lady were having some serious conversations about stuff. Yes, it’s the lady from the weight loss thread. Well during that conversation she asked if I would tidy up the pubic hair. I’ve never been asked that before. I said I was cool with it and did she want to do it. She said yes she would, but she has not done it yet. I don’t mind and it might be fun.

This ever happened to anyone else? Are guys trimming or shaving the pubic hair these days? Completely shaving sounds gay to me and I don’t want that, but trimming might be ok.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Billtx49

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did she want to do it. She said yes she would, but she has not done it yet.

but trimming might be ok.
Never trust others with sharp instruments in your downstairs area…

If you’re particularly hirsute or desire less mess, occasional trimming is the ‘well physically/sexually groomed’ requirement.
 

Grinderman

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she asked if I would tidy up the pubic hair.
Reasonable request which she shouldn't have had to ask. A man needs to keep up on his grooming. It's just all together cleaner and
smoother. Especially if you work out and/or live in a hot climate. Women give more eager and deeper head with more tongue when your rifle is well maintained. Get your act together soldier.

I said I was cool with it and did she want to do it
that's just fvcking weird. She isn't your mother. I'd let mine go a bit one time and a ho offered to shave it for me. No ho is going near me with a blade.

I don’t mind and it might be fun.
I wouldn't let a braced biatch go down on me, never mind a tubby chick with a blade. What if she thinks it's a sausage.

Are guys trimming or shaving the pubic hair these days?
all off.

Completely shaving sounds gay to me
I think you need to look up what being gay is. A propensity to bang fags or get banged by fags means you are a gay or at least acting like a degenerate gay.

Grooming is not a homosexual act you insecure chubby chaser you!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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deadmasterx

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I usually trim, using these hair machines, leaving some short hair.

I tried shaving once, feels like ****. Long hair algo feels awful. Trimming is the way to go.
 

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I dont trust any woman with a sharp object in that area. Careful, next time she will ask to circumcise you.
 

Billtx49

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I dont trust any woman with a sharp object in that area. Careful, next time she will ask to circumcise you.
Yes, the name Lorena Bobbitt instantaneously comes to my mind during this type of discussion …
 

SW15

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@CoandaEffect is 56. I think this must be a generation thing. A lot of guys in their 20s/30s now trim their pubic hair. Both men and women of the Millennial generation (1982-1996) and Gen Z (late 90s/early 2000s births 18+ now) were raised on easy access internet porn where the majority of women had fully shaved pubic areas and men were manscaped.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GT40

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Yes. Makes sense. I do as well and I’m 49
 

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This morning in bed me and my lady were having some serious conversations about stuff. Yes, it’s the lady from the weight loss thread. Well during that conversation she asked if I would tidy up the pubic hair. I’ve never been asked that before. I said I was cool with it and did she want to do it. She said yes she would, but she has not done it yet. I don’t mind and it might be fun.

This ever happened to anyone else? Are guys trimming or shaving the pubic hair these days? Completely shaving sounds gay to me and I don’t want that, but trimming might be ok.
yes, do it. At first, might feel odd. like all changes or improvements after a little while, it will just be part of your routine. Also trim underarms and consider stomach/chest if that's needed for you. Get the right trimmer, if you decide to just use a hair trimmer put the short #1 guard on it. might not get as short as you want, but will keep you safe. The stomach/chest could be #2 or 3 depending on you.
 

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@CoandaEffect is 56. I think this must be a generation thing. A lot of guys in their 20s/30s now trim their pubic hair. Both men and women of the Millennial generation (1982-1996) and Gen Z (late 90s/early 2000s births 18+ now) were raised on easy access internet porn where the majority of women had fully shaved pubic areas and men were manscaped.
This.

Reminds me of Harold and Kumar bottomless swimming pool party scene...
 
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