"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She wants a man with a real job but shes a social services worker!

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Wow, Amazing These North American Women,

She Wants A Man With A Real Job But She

Is A Social Services Worker!

How Much Do Social Services Workers Make?

Minimum Wage?

What Kind Of Career Advances Could She Make
With This Title?

She Wants A Doctor But Shes A Social Services Worker

Amazing!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When I Get My First Girlfriend, I'm Going To Watch Out For Girls Like This!

This Is Crazy!

Mom?
 

Deep Dish

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gspshields2 said:
Wow, Amazing These North American Women
Hypergamy mercilessly honors no country, continent, or side of the big pond.
 

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Deep Dish said the right word: hypergamy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sorry but if I was a girl I would also look to secure my financial future to where I dont ever have to work. So my vag would be up for sale to the highest bidder.


What's the problem exactly?
 

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Deep Dish said:
Hypergamy mercilessly honors no country, continent, or side of the big pond.
You obviously didn't get the "manosphere" memo: All American women are evil shrews. All Eastern European women are beautiful angels.

Toe the line!!!
 

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Zarky said:
You obviously didn't get the "manosphere" memo: All American women are evil shrews. All Eastern European women are beautiful angels.

Toe the line!!!
heh.

Prosperity and overabundance of options inflate the demands of hypergamy, but hypergamy still operates in impoverished countries, nonetheless.
 

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It's called entitlement. Definitely gotta watch for that. As well as hypocrisy and double standards. IE, just because they expect something - doesn't mean they have to offer it in return. Just because they ***** about something - doesn't mean they're any better. Just because they hate when something bad happens to them - doesn't mean they have any qualms about doing the same things to others. So on... Many people are quite selfish.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gsp, you make me crease! :crackup:
 

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Characteristics of the ideal woman for most SS members:

- Eastern European / white South American / little east Asian
- Perfect body
- Great personality (no personality disorders/depression/"BPD")
- Virgin (but great in bed)
- Has her own money (but is more focused on building a family with you than on her career [trust fund girl?])
- Not uptight (but not a hippie)
- Completely and totally in love with you (despite the fact you spend hours on message boards and pledging to stop masturbating / talk to 100 stranger girls)

Despite the fact that this woman likely doesn't exist, what's so goddamn special about YOU that you have the social capital to make even half of these demands?

Think about it.
 

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Serialized3 said:
Characteristics of the ideal woman for most SS members:

- Eastern European / white South American / little east Asian
- Perfect body
- Great personality (no personality disorders/depression/"BPD")
- Virgin (but great in bed)
- Has her own money (but is more focused on building a family with you than on her career [trust fund girl?])
- Not uptight (but not a hippie)
- Completely and totally in love with you (despite the fact you spend hours on message boards and pledging to stop masturbating / talk to 100 stranger girls)

Despite the fact that this woman likely doesn't exist, what's so goddamn special about YOU that you have the social capital to make even half of these demands?

Think about it.
dunno about you bro, but i'm fvcking awesome, and she knows it,thats why i broke her heart :D

(you did quite an accurate description of my ex!)
 

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Entitlement issues and princess syndrome is at an unbelievable high.

One time I dated this girl who was mad I didn't have a S Class Benz, yet she drives a 1999 Ford Contour. What the f**k is dating coming to?
 

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social services worker? if thats something like a medical social worker. They make a decent amount of money ~80k
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I call bull$hit on that! hate how women harp on about equal this and equal that yet still want a man to provide a nice fat bank account for them to blast

suppose its just another wonder of possessing a set of beef curtains
 

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There is a difference between a Social Worker and a Social Services worker. A Social Worker usually requires a MSW and certification and pay around 50-80k, depending if you are in the public or private sector. A social services worker is lucky to get 25-30 k a year and they only require a 4 year degree or less if you already have experience in the field. A SS worker basically determines who gets welfare among other things.

Just thought I would throw my 2c in since I work in that field.
 
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