So I sent messages to several ppl on a dating site and got no takers but now, several days later, I got a response from one of them today. She looked at my profile several weeks back and then again when I looked at her's and then recently she looked again when i totally redid my profile. I know she had to of gotten the message the morning after I sent it cuz it shows when one is last online and she logged in early that morning. So I was like F her and didn't think about it again til I get a message saying I seem like a nice guy with a great sense of humor and she is very interested... I don't know what else she said cuz I just saw what was in my regular email and have yet to log back in to the site cuz I don't want it to look like I rushed to check it.
Maybe she took so long cuz I didn't message her when I first looked at her or maybe she is at best luke warm but she is attractive and I like her profile so how should I proceed. Should I stay with my instincts and not log in and wait til tomorrow and check it or check it tonight and not respond or check it tonight and respond? Being strait forward hasn't worked too well for me so I'm trying to work on building attraction however she is a single mom, and it's not natural for me to play these games, so I don't want to bs too much.
Maybe she took so long cuz I didn't message her when I first looked at her or maybe she is at best luke warm but she is attractive and I like her profile so how should I proceed. Should I stay with my instincts and not log in and wait til tomorrow and check it or check it tonight and not respond or check it tonight and respond? Being strait forward hasn't worked too well for me so I'm trying to work on building attraction however she is a single mom, and it's not natural for me to play these games, so I don't want to bs too much.