"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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she used to be in love with me but now...

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dave007

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well this girl ..i met her a year ago..we started of really well...though i was not attracted to her..but yet she was like a very good friend of mine....infact im pretty damn sure she even started falling in love with me...though she kept denying it...anyways...recently there was some misunderstanding because of some of her friends who had spread the rumor that we were seeing each other(2 or 3 months back.)...it spoiled our friendship and i havent been able to keep up the same tension(this really bothers me..cuz she is responsble for tons of women ive met..and many more that i might meet in future...she practically knows the entire school)...but now she rarely talks...flinches wen i make fun of her(very unlike her)..never laughs at my jokes...and keeps telling every one that i am a very'boring' person to hang out with...which is absolutely impossible if i consider remarks of other females...she acts as if she is disgusted ...in short she does totally the opposite of what a girl wud do if she loves you...
what do i do??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jack-Torrance

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Let me start by saying I am NO expert... but what I think is one of the following:

1. She is scared of admitting she likes you because you act as if you don't like her...

2. Her friends have said something about you and she feels she can't ever go out with you because of it...

3. You have become so worried about if she is going off of you that you really have started to become more boring because you try so hard to "say the right thing"

... I am no expert but stil... :)
 
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Befriend her then. Show her that you're harmless and that you can be trusted. I mean, if someone spread rumours, it must have leaked from either you or her. She's obviously blaming you, so keep her on the down low.
 
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