She Used To Be Fun To Talk To

[TheEdgeOf]

There's a girl I know at college who at used to be fun and exciting to talk to, but recently, some negative things have been going on in her life and now she's not as much fun to talk to anymore. She just doesn't seem to ever be in the mood to talk and i don't usually get a positive vibe from her anymore.

What should I do?

 

[KontrollerX]

Stop talking to her and find someone more positive to hang around that doesn't let their issues effect you.

If she changes her tune hang out with her again.

Chicks in the end are not attracted to a guy that plays their therapist even if eventually they go through the motions of being greatful for your help and become your girlfriend for a while.

 

[TheEdgeOf]

Stop talking to her and find someone more positive to hang around that doesn't let their issues effect you.

If she changes her tune hang out with her again.

Chicks in the end are not attracted to a guy that plays their therapist even if eventually they go through the motions of being greatful for your help and become your girlfriend for a while.

I was actually doing that for a little bit (being therapist-type bs), then I just thought "Yeah, this is ghey" and I didn't talk to her for three days.

But I do miss the old her, hope she changes back soon. Oh well.

 

[KontrollerX]

And just to clarify TheEdgeOf I think its a great trait to want to help people and hell even be there for them in a time of need.

Just not all the time and mostly reserved for family, friends and yeah even a girlfriend who has proven herself to you over a long period of time.

But a chick you are just starting to game?

No chance in hell.

LOL.

 

[TheEdgeOf]

And just to clarify TheEdgeOf I think its a great trait to want to help people and hell even be there for them in a time of need.

Just not all the time and mostly reserved for family, friends and yeah even a girlfriend who has proven herself to you over a long period of time.

But a chick you are just starting to game?

No chance in hell.

LOL.

Lmao, I've known this girl for a couple months now, but it wasn't until recently that we actually started talking to each other. But yeah, the point is, I'm not sure what to do. The thing about keeping away from here until her mood improves seems like a sound strategy, so unless anyone else has some better advice, I'll stick with that.