"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SHE used ME for sex??? WTF

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Originally posted by Immaculate
Wonder how this would have played out if I didn't give in the first night.

As SOON as I said I wasn't going to f#ck her on the first date, she put her hand down my pants and started massaging my d!ck. Plus we were taking tequila shots. B!tch knew what she was doing.
"Oh, I hope no one thinks I'm a slvt. Why oh why did I give in to this? I knew he wouldn't call. I told him no, but he just put his hands down my pants and started rubbing my crotch. I was just tipsy, and he was cute, and well, one thing led to another. I feel so used, poor me"

Dude! SNAP OUT OF IT!

IMMACULATE, I love you man, but c'mon,..listen to yourself, go back and read what you post. Sweet Mother Mary you read like a hungover sorority girl after Spring Break in Cancun.

:cheer:

Sorry man, no offense, but really,..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i got her in chat right now LOL... give me some lines guys! I want this pu$$y back
 

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Originally posted by Immaculate
i got her in chat right now LOL... give me some lines guys! I want this pu$$y back
Chat lines for that "special lady"? :)
Start with something like this:
"No, no, ... I don't want to fvck you baby..."
She responded very well to it before.
 

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hahah! You guys who think I blew it.. she still has me in her AIM and she logged on and we just chatted for an hour ... I'm gettin this ***** back!

Well she just logged off .. she'll be back later .. seriosuly guys give me some things to say to get her back ...
 

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Originally posted by al77
Chat lines for that "special lady"? :)
Start with something like this:
"No, no, ... I don't want to fvck you baby..."
She responded very well to it before.
LOL I tried talking dirty to her and she said her family was around and keep it clean LOL... so I hit her up with intellectual stuff... let's see what happens.... She didn't delete me from AIM and we just chatted for an hour so she must have some IL left right?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why do you want her back after that??

It's not going to end in a relationship, you want a relationship, what's the point??

If you want to bang a girl for a few nights, why don't you start from scratch instead of trying to win one back??

She made it pretty clea she doesn't like you that way, and it's prolly not going to happen.
 

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Originally posted by Immaculate
hahah! You guys who think I blew it.. she still has me in her AIM and she logged on and we just chatted for an hour ... I'm gettin this ***** back!

Well she just logged off .. she'll be back later .. seriosuly guys give me some things to say to get her back ...
Hey, good luck with that. I'm sure you'll make a great wife for this lucky lady.

:rolleyes:

You might also want to have your clothes pressed again to remove all of those shoeprints on your back.
 

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Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Hey, good luck with that. I'm sure you'll make a great wife for this lucky lady.

:rolleyes:

You might also want to have your clothes pressed again to remove all of those shoeprints on your back.
Nah time to turn the tables on this ho

If I can get her to come over for another bite of the taco.
 

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
You told her "no" and it worked until you gave in. Now she told you "no" and you are hooked.

lol .. good point.. Plus she was a freakin SCREAMER in the sack.. it's great when a girl is howling like a banshee when you are banging her .. anyway we'll see what happens.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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One face says:

Originally posted by Immaculate
She started talking about sex. I liked her and said "I'm not giving it to you so soon".. she then put her hands down my pants and from there I was toast!

The other says:

Originally posted by Immaculate
If I can get her to come over for another bite of the taco.
Originally posted by Immaculate
lshe was a freakin SCREAMER in the sack.. it's great when a girl is howling like a banshee when you are banging her .. anyway we'll see what happens.
 

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Whatever the hell your point is.. she isn't going to find another 2 hour marathon man like me ... and she'll be back for more eventually LOL
 

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Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Hey, good luck with that. I'm sure you'll make a great wife for this lucky lady.

:rolleyes:

You might also want to have your clothes pressed again to remove all of those shoeprints on your back.
lmao...I warned him he was in over his head. She has all the power because she doesn't give a sh*t one way or the other about him but he's obsessing over her.

He's going to end up asking her to marry him and she will say no, lol. Mark my word...
 

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Originally posted by Immaculate
Whatever the hell your point is.. she isn't going to find another 2 hour marathon man like me ... and she'll be back for more eventually LOL
Pppfffttt...a bottle of viagra and a penis can replace you easy enough.

YOU are obsessing over her and you are going to crash and burn badly. But you won't listen and will keep running back until you buy her a ring and ask her to marry you. She's a challenge to you, and that's why you want her so bad. She is in total control over you. It'd be funny if it weren't so, well, pathetic to witness your gushing.

Stop being such a biotch...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Pppfffttt...a bottle of viagra and a penis can replace you easy enough.

YOU are obsessing over her and you are going to crash and burn badly. But you won't listen and will keep running back until you buy her a ring and ask her to marry you. She's a challenge to you, and that's why you want her so bad. She is in total control over you. It'd be funny if it weren't so, well, pathetic to witness your gushing.

Stop being such a biotch...
LOL Sounds like Wyldfire needs a 2 hour session with me to cheer ya up.
 

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Originally posted by Immaculate
LOL Sounds like Wyldfire needs a 2 hour session with me to cheer ya up.
Only two hours? You're a light weight...

I'd f*cking HURT you...

I'll pass, though...you'd bore me to tears...much too easy. I like my men stronger than I am and you, Immaculate, just wouldn't cut the mustard.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Only two hours? You're a light weight...

I'd f*cking HURT you...

I'll pass, though...you'd bore me to tears...much too easy. I like my men stronger than I am and you, Immaculate, just wouldn't cut the mustard.

hurt me baby!! Then dump my a$$. So I'll be up in here "obsessing"about you... even though I lost your # and email addy.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Only two hours? You're a light weight...

I'd f*cking HURT you...

I'll pass, though...you'd bore me to tears...much too easy. I like my men stronger than I am and you, Immaculate, just wouldn't cut the mustard.
rofl i swear wyldfire is just a guy with a really good mark in drama class.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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