"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She unblocked me on facebook.

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So I just found out she "unblocked" me on facebook after almost 2 months. And i'm 95% sure she isn't dating anyone. A few weeks ago she told my friend she didn't want anymore contact with me, but i'm starting to wonder if she misses me at all. Or maybe she just misses the attention I was giving her? Or maybe she is just lonely because it's almost Christmas. She still has the same facebook picture as before we broke up. I also notice that she hasn't been on dating website in a few weeks. Not really sure what to think of this.
Maybe me not contacting her is starting to work?
Any thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Htienvu

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Don't delude yourself and fall into self made traps my friend. Move on...
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Most of the posters here either have mental problems, are really slow, or are just trolls.

Get off her nuts. She doesn't want your ass because you are too clingy. Get a life.
 

pdx1138

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Bud, the sooner you get over her, the better off you will be.

stop believing this is salvageable....I don't even know her and I know for a fact it will never be the same.

So accept it and make it your new years resolution to get over her and meet someone new for fvck sake.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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demezel

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geez why you caring so much for one woman... are you slow??? it is not like god opened the gate to heaven for you , it is just a fvcking chick unblocking you on a fvcking social network because she "thinks" you are less of a loser now. why giving her so much power? you are not some kind of chihuahua that wanted to go pee outside...Dude move on and forget about this chick... im starting to not understand humans...
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Most of the posters here either have mental problems, are really slow, or are just trolls.
I've only been lurking this site for 10 or so days but it's clear half of the people here are hopeless. So far I'm getting alot more info on what NOT TO DO as opposed to increasing my game.
 

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You're still posting about this bytch? MOVE ON.
Everything about this guy adds up to him being a troll.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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