"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She unblocked me on facebook.

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So I just found out she "unblocked" me on facebook after almost 2 months. And i'm 95% sure she isn't dating anyone. A few weeks ago she told my friend she didn't want anymore contact with me, but i'm starting to wonder if she misses me at all. Or maybe she just misses the attention I was giving her? Or maybe she is just lonely because it's almost Christmas. She still has the same facebook picture as before we broke up. I also notice that she hasn't been on dating website in a few weeks. Not really sure what to think of this.
Maybe me not contacting her is starting to work?
Any thoughts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Htienvu

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Don't delude yourself and fall into self made traps my friend. Move on...
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Most of the posters here either have mental problems, are really slow, or are just trolls.

Get off her nuts. She doesn't want your ass because you are too clingy. Get a life.
 

pdx1138

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Bud, the sooner you get over her, the better off you will be.

stop believing this is salvageable....I don't even know her and I know for a fact it will never be the same.

So accept it and make it your new years resolution to get over her and meet someone new for fvck sake.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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geez why you caring so much for one woman... are you slow??? it is not like god opened the gate to heaven for you , it is just a fvcking chick unblocking you on a fvcking social network because she "thinks" you are less of a loser now. why giving her so much power? you are not some kind of chihuahua that wanted to go pee outside...Dude move on and forget about this chick... im starting to not understand humans...
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Most of the posters here either have mental problems, are really slow, or are just trolls.
I've only been lurking this site for 10 or so days but it's clear half of the people here are hopeless. So far I'm getting alot more info on what NOT TO DO as opposed to increasing my game.
 

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You're still posting about this bytch? MOVE ON.
Everything about this guy adds up to him being a troll.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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