"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She told me she's pregnant. I'm ignoring her.
- Thread starter vanballmoos
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bible_Belt
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One of our female sosuavers, who doesn't post much any more, got pregnant multiple times while on the pill. It happens.
But she told this a-hole weeks ago that she thought she was. This shouldn't be a surprise to OP at all. It doesn't sound like she's faking it all to me. Usually women who fake it spring it on you-not tell you beforehand that they're worried.
I guess I don't understand how a man can admittedly say that he ejaculated in her every time and then question if she's genuinely pregnant. That blows my mind. He made his bed so he should lay in it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Thatfeel21
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So you're telling me that even though you know someone is lying about being pregnant you would still communicate with them?
She went out the night before in heels and a skirt. Who goes out if they're supposedly scared and freaked out because they're pregnant?
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Literally, own up to your sh@t...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
devilkingx2
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Again, you wouldn't think the girl was playing games if she's supposedly freaked out but she went out the night before?
devilkingx2
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Do you think that becoming pregnant would instantly make her intelligent and responsible?
its funny how your thought process work. theres chance kids not your but you never know, anyway it sounds like two fit each other
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It’s not even that. Going out could simply mean she’s trying to get her mind off of things. People do it all the time.
But the girl already said she didn't want the baby.
So what else could she want from OP except for his emotional support? OP is the worst.
MatureDJ
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yea I think if you're upwards of 200 lbs BC isn't as effective
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.